K this guy we will call him A n the other B. Im a freshmen so r they. Well I broke up with my boyfriend and started having a crush on A. I already had a friendship with A and well I had a lil crush on him.We got to talking and I told him and well we were gonna be boyfriend and girlfriend but til then we were friends with benefits, we had kisses and all. Well he went away for xmas and txted me alot. We got to talking and he didnt want people to know about us and well we couldnt be a couple around others depending who they r. Well something happend and I dont know wat and he needed some space well I kinda freaked out cuz he didnt want to talk when i realllllly needed him. Well he got mad and now wont even talk to me. he is ignoring all my txts, IMs, and notes. Well I kinda like one of his best friends, B, but 2 issues. today i caught A looking at me alot and i know its wrong to date a ex's bff but i never went out with him. so help is it ok to like B and go out with him maybe? HELP ME!
2007-01-05 10:42:26 · 4 answers · asked by Mae-Day 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the issue is A wants nothing to with me at all he wont talk. gah this is sooo confussing
2007-01-05 10:48:12 · update #1
you have guy issues!!!! i would work everything out with "A" before you go anywhere with "B" cuz if you go out with him and "A" sees you, then you will have some SERIOUS problems
2007-01-05 10:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him he will come back to you
you texting him all the time makes him know he has got u by the leash(sp?)
sometimes they need to know what they are missing
so by u being strong and not texting him and just not giving him as much attention will bring him back
as for moving to his best friend
i dont advise that to much because u are going to probably break up their friendship
B shouldnt go out with u simply because u are his Best friends EX but u should talk to A about that first
be honest be upfront
but i would not jump around so fast
concentrate on one before u jump around
good luck
2007-01-05 10:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by PoT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see if you can work it out with A then go from there. if you have to, ask him straight out.
2007-01-05 10:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Fire Dance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats with all the guy stuff i thought you were a music lover
2007-01-05 10:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋