This girl i really like.?

Question

Ok, here's the story, i was hanging out with my cousin and we went over to her friend's house. At my cousin's friend's house, I met this other girl. I was immiediatly attracted, she is a great person, and is beautiful. GIRLS, what attract you to guys??? Anything helps. Will pick best answer. Thanks

Answer 1

honest guys, the ones that can take a joke, guys who smell good, guys that are not self centered and not only thinking of themselves and the guy who makes you know you'll always be there for you whether you're still going out or not. Just go with the flow and let life come at you and just be yourself and not too much showing off. Btw, I see guys flirting with me a lot and the symptoms are the person making you laugh (make her laugh, not too inapropriate things though) and also try to be yourself! That's key. Good Luck getting this girl but list pros and cons of her and other possible girls so you keep your options open and make moves; small ones and keep making small moves until you reach the girl you want!

Answer 2

It's a little different for every girl, from what I know. A common attraction is somebody who can relate to you while raising new points to you when you're being serious when talking to them. Also, most girls love to laugh (kind of a give-in) and actually funny humor makes a girl like a guy more most of the time.

Also, being fashionable in a masculine way is pretty attractive. A nice body and face helps, too. But it's not necessary.

Answer 3

Wow... the guy MUST be a REAL gentlemen... holding doors, pulling out chair for me in the restraunt, etc... have a good sense of humor, kind, genorous, just pretty well rounded in the good qualities... the guy has to have something special about him, like maybe he's really nice and helps little kids, or he's a funny artist who does funny doodles, etc... I also like a guy who isn't shy and doesn't act like someone else, someone that they're not... some girls love guys who have a need for speed, etc... those girls are especially daredevilish and love challenges... maybe take her rock climbing if she's one of those after a nice dinner somewhere... not in a junk yard... what turns on my parents is a guy who brings me home a little before my curfew... yea, anyways... I hope this helps!!!!!!!

Answer 4

this is what attracks me to a guy: conversation is the most important thing. a guy who can speak on an intelligent level is very attracting. (save all war stories for later). don't brag on what you have accomplished. let the female ask the questions then you can elaborate on it. volunteering information may make you come across as conceited, boastful, etc.... give good eye contact. a woman love a man to look her straight in the eyes. (at least i do). a great personality can take you a long ways. find a silver lining in the darkest clouds. show interest in the woman. ask her questions about her education background, accomplishments, etc... avoid asking "what do you like to do for fun" type questions. it sounds to much like an interview. it also may make her feel uncomfortable. it even may cause her to tell a "white" lie. meaning, she may just tell you something to either please you or something that she think you want to hear, whether if it's true or not. that can be stressful. don't brag about how good you are in the bed. let the woman brag on you. do not sag your pants. that is so 1990's. nice mild colonge usually work. you see i am curently in school to get my masters degree in counseling and psychology. so excuse me if it sounds as if i'm giving you a session.(smile) the fact of the matter is, i'm looking for mr. right also and everything i just told you is what i'm looking for in a man. looks don't really matter if your conversation is on point. make love to her mind before you try and make love to her body. all that will come in due time. don't rush, take your time. before you know it, you may have the key to her heart!!!!!

Answer 5

The majority of us like a GREAT personality (sweet, nice, polite)! Others may be more picky than others, but most of us love a great personality! Someone who isn't afraid of being themself and doing they're own thing! Boldness is very sexy too, guys that take initiative (which is lacking where I live) is definitely a plus. Not many guys these days do that, they just are passive and let all the aggressive women chase them. Thats so un-cool in my opinion.

Oh yes and another MAJOR thing is sensitivity! Don't be a totally pansy but guys with a sensitive/romantic side is a plus too! Good luck! =]

Answer 6

Funny and sweet very polite and doesn't care about what people say about him. Protects him girl not pushy or perfect has feelings and is nice. Charming smile wonderful feelings for you. Also doesn't want to use you a reliable source and care about you. Thats really what all women look for in a guy hope that helps! and good luck cathing that gurl!!! make sure you dress well and ask that gurl out! but whatever you do dont get her pragnant don't sleep withher unless useing comdoms and have safe sex and try not to get aids or hiv

Answer 7

I really love a sense of humor and a great, strong personality.
I don't really care if he's popular or anything, but I do care a little about looks.
I like a musical person, someone who plays the gutair, writes music, or sings.
I love someone who has a passion for me, and he truly loves for who I am and would never lie to me just to get my attention. That's who I would truly love.
I hope that helps!
Good luck!
God Bless!

Answer 8

He has to be confident in himself, but still not seem cocky cause we girls don't always fall for cocky guys. You got to know how to make her smile laugh even maybe but don't try so hard. And before you try and have a relationship with her be her friend and work your self up from there. Gives compliments but still not too much, not puhing it. And be your self. And don't talk about other girls you've dated before it makes you seem like a player which is not always a good thing. And get to know her what she likes, stuff like that. And trust me you'll know when she starts tolike you. So ask her for her number. And good luck hope this helps.

Answer 9

A guy that is down to earth....not a Mama's boy but not a show off too....Love a man that can carry on an INTELLIGENT conversation AND look good too....I would be lying if I said looks were not involved.

Answer 10

some of the best qualities in a guy are kindness, knowing he cares about you, thoughtfulness, a good sense of humor, and it does help if you're cute, altho I know that's shallow. Make sure she's comfortable with you, and you can carry a convorsation with her for a while.