Her daugher was 11 years old and very hard to please.... My ex now I should say she was good lady but her daugher I could not take the pressure or anything and I was not very happy with it so I amd her de cided to call it quits last night I did not wanna hurt her but it happened did I do wrong by doing this to make myself happy in life??
2007-01-05 10:37:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you need to be happy in order to make someone else happy
2007-01-05 10:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by KiTtYcAt7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably didn't think about this, but, your ex's daughter behaves the way she does, because her mother allows her to. And, has for a very long time. So, while the mother may be "good lady", she might want to work on being a "good mother". An 11 year old, should know what her boundaries are, and if she doesn't it's because the parent hasn't identified them. You were right to leave, as that child's behavior was indicative of the mom she has, but, you haven't really met.
2007-01-05 10:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by sundeevah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you give more details on the daughter. Is the kid not wanting her mother to be involved with you b/c she thinks her mom should be with her Dad or something?
If you still love her, is there no way you and she could talk about her out of control daughter and figure out something? However if the mother is accepting of her daughter acting like a brat and disrespecting others then no it's not wrong for you to want to not have to deal with that.
2007-01-05 10:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daughter is hard to please because DAD is the only man she wants in her, her mom's life. If the two of them are worth the strain, eventually things can be great between you and the two of them. If you do not have the patience for this sort of thing, then breaking up is the smart thing to do. Another guy who welcomes the challenge of her daughter, will come along and eventually make all three of them a family.
2007-01-05 10:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you did right. To make ohter people happy you have to be happy first. I hope that lady should overcome this break-up quickly. Can't you guys be just normal friends again?. I think you guys should give her daughter some time maybe things will come back to normal again. She is just 11 , its hard for her really to accept you. Maybe you should spend some quality time with her. I hope this works.
2007-01-05 10:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by dishakr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of a long term, committed relationship is accepting the person and all of the 'baggage' they come with. If you couldn't handle everything about the person you were dating, then it's better for both of you to move on. Otherwise, you'd just have more problems later on down the road.
2007-01-05 10:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Katasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. sending a Message is not a good way to break up..
good hting is to talk to her about the issues or
may be the daughter is feeling insecure about her bec. her mpother is giving more importance to u and she is behaving in a wrong way..
try to think about the cause of her wrong behaviour and may beu will be able to find solution....
2007-01-05 10:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 12:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the wrong thing you should of tell her that the daughter is not friendly to me. Instead of breaking up with her for her daughter. She didn't even know.
2007-01-05 10:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sercet Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't get along with her child,then it would have probably ended soon anyway..
Mom's tend to favor their child..
you most likely did the right thing
best of luck to you
2007-01-05 10:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋