I've only been with two girls before my current girlfriend, and only one of them more than once. My girlfriend knew that but lately as we've been having more sex (I was her first) she's been asking me "kinky" things that I've done and its not like there's much but I just feel weird talking about it. I know for one I get wierded out when she even talks about giving a guy head once like two years ago. I don't want to deny the past but I don't want it to make things wierd now...
2007-01-05 09:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by Matt J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well at least your open with eeachother i supose!
2007-01-05 09:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before everything, your emotions are truthfully valid. those human beings ought to understand better...as quickly as you pronounced something to them, it ought to have stopped. That pronounced, is this truly something to bypass to conflict over? i realize it somewhat is stressful and you should comprehend that part of the reason it bothers you lots is which you're nonetheless conflicted approximately being interior the closet vs being open. So each time the priority comes up, it triggers you inner conflict. this is your difficulty, no longer theirs...you in basic terms ought to comprehend it as such. in case you nonetheless want to bypass to conflict over this, you could communicate over with the HR branch and that'll in all probability get the individuals to back off. yet then it somewhat is going to impression your skill to artwork with those human beings interior the destiny, in all probability harm your possibilities at progression (no one likes a complainer) or will improve and you will in all probability experience much greater remoted than you do now. an more suitable suggestion could be to make self-deprecating jokes approximately it, like there is a few interior suggestions that they are going to in no way locate out approximately you...and so on. Self deprecation could be an significant gadget in case you could recover from your insecurities.
2016-11-26 22:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way should you talk about your or her sexual past. Nothing good can come from this. If she asks about kinky things, just tell her that you are willing to explore with her.
2007-01-05 09:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is asking, the talk to her about it. It might open new doors for your relationship. Or, just tell her you are not comfortable with talking about your past relationships, and you only want her and to make new and better memories with her and her only! She should respect that and love you more.
2007-01-05 09:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go by rule of thumb--which is you can't lie to a girl (but you can't tell her the truth either). Just tell her the truth, and don't make stuff up. She'll probably more upset that you lied to her than your actually experience.
2007-01-05 09:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by gman992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you don't want to talk about it because it's something too special to talk about and ask her how she would feel if you started talking about things you did in the bedroom with her. if that doesn't work, i don't know what will
2007-01-05 09:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she asks you, sure, talk about it.
but you dont have to if you dont feel like it.
2007-01-05 09:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by noreen24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, she may think she wants to know, but she doesn't
2007-01-05 09:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't.
2007-01-05 09:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋