i would like to have a baby . with out my bf not knowing .
2007-01-05 09:36:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i didnt not put down i would like to adopt a baby with out him knowing
2007-01-05 09:47:50 · update #1
Not the best decision! If he really truly loved you, and you both were ready, he'd love to have a baby with u!!!
2007-01-05 11:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think that is wise. Why would you want to have a baby without him knowing? Does he not want children and you do? I think you should talk to him. Explain that you are wanting to have a child and get is opinion. If it turns out that he doesn't feel the same way then you need to make a choice. do you want to stay With him and see if he changes his mind later or do you want to leave and find someone who wants children the same way you do? Good luck!
2007-01-05 09:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would you have a baby without your bf knowing. how old are you. if you are not out of college and dont have a WELL paying job then i would say no dont have a baby
2007-01-05 09:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your boyfriend will find out real soon. When your belly starts growing. He will know that it is his. Hard to keep that a secret.
Unless you adopt one at a good adoption agency. Well good luck!
2007-01-05 09:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it you sound way young and baby's are more responsibility than one can handle at a young age. please think before you act. A baby is not like a puppy you can bring back if it don't work out its forever! Think about it!
2007-01-05 09:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you are trying to trap him. just because you have a baby with him doesnt mean he will stay forever....i would suggest not having a baby w/out him knowing. if you do, get ready to pay the consequences....
2007-01-05 09:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jacinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, no, no.... not ok.. i can understand the urge to have one, but it is not all glamour to get pregnant with a boyfriend who does not want one for your sake.. it is however wonderful to have some one who does want one with you... you can try together, he will go to your preg classes, be there at the birth excited! the other way is alot of stress and hurt feelings. if he is not ready, you better believe he will leave you for some one else and you will have to go through it alone!
2007-01-05 09:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into a serious relationship with someone who is so eager to get married and have a baby....It is that simple...
2007-01-05 09:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong. Your boyfriend should have the choice if he wants a kid to support the rest of his life
2007-01-05 09:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by dcarroll28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trick him into getting you pregnant, you're just asking for trouble... and you'd deserve it!!! If you want a baby, and you're boyfriend doesn't... go to a sperm bank!!
2007-01-05 09:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋