One of my friends insists on telling her daughter she is her "princess" or just calling "little princess". She even buy her lots of princess toys. I think nicknames are cute, but I'm not sure about this one. Will she feel a greater sense of entitlement or need for pampering and attention?
2007-01-05 09:19:24 · 16 answers · asked by escapeinthepalms 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Actually, that's what my dad called me when I was younger. I never thought I was truly a princess. Of course, this could be a problem if she is called "princess" and is also spoiled like one.
2007-01-05 09:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
My daughter will be four in about three months, we have called her princess since the day she was born. She has an older and younger brother. Yes she has princess toys and movies and clothes (both dress up and regular). But she doesn't act like she is "entitled" to anything. Nicknames don't make an attitude. How a child is raised will make them act that way.
2007-01-05 09:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately.
My 16 year old niece has been a princess since she was born. She is still a princess. Don't get me wrong, I love her like she was my own, but the whining, pouting, demanding attitude really detracts from her good qualities and her beauty.
My three year old is a princess to. However, I firmly believe that she is going to be either in prison or in the marines judging by her royal attitude. I let her have a few princess things, but the majority are put up and rotated. When people call her princess, I say "No, her name is Nikki".
2007-01-05 11:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by siriusblackpearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is power in names and even more important is the intent behind it.Certain pet names and even regular names can become a suttle affirmation Ex:sage,Jesus,angel, etc.The name itself will have an effect on the individual positive or negative.the exception again is the intent and behavior behind it.If one calls her daughter a princess and abuse her then it is obvious she wont feel or act like one. If the same is done and values of self worth,self esteem, empowerment,compassion,confidence are taught then the child wont grow p to be the negation of the term "princess".I do find lots parents who feel that these things are insignificant but children are very impressionable and one must monitor our words and action to a certain extent.
2007-01-05 09:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by fudolove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with makeing a child feel good about themselves. So she's not a "real" princess, she might as well be to her parents.
My parents always told me what a beautiful princess I was when I was little and it only made me feel beautiful and loved.
I have four sons, so you can imagine what a "princess" my daughter would be if I ever had one.
2007-01-05 09:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe it will do any harm if the child is young. All kids need to be told they are princes and princesses...it builds character. I do the same for my daughter. But you have to know when to let them know that even though they may be your princess that doesnt mean that they can get their way all of the time. They will understand sooner or later.
2007-01-05 09:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think the flaws are what keep me grounded lol though they are few and far between and dont hold me back for long. its only human to fail at something every once in a while though. I dont see pride or arrogance as a weakness as long as its not to the point that you have tunnel vision cause your head is up your own ***. Theres nothing wrong with being an attention seeker either. As long as youre not bein a publicity wh*re. Competition is good, it keeps people from being complacent. Bluntness is great because you dont spend forever and a day beating around the bush. Spit it out or shut the hell up. thrill-seeking - damn right. the times i feel the most alive are when Im closest to death. Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees
2016-03-29 09:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's just a nice way to refering to a girl, I don't think it has a negative impact on her at all, I mean most daddys keep calling their daughters princess even if they are all grown up, so it's OK just let her know it's a term of endearment separate facts from fiction
2007-01-05 09:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple that NAMED their kid Princess. And another couple who named their kid Treasure. My mom works at an elementary school. I definitely wouldn't even nickname kids that way - kids seem far too entitled as it is without that.
2007-01-05 11:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by eri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on The child if she showers her with gifts and such and the child is spoiled then yes it has negative effects but if the child is whole hearted and sweet then nothing bad should come of it but usually it has negative effects
2007-01-05 10:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by monkey8kenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋