help. becuase my guidance counselor wont.?

Question

okay. im a cutter and im starting to become anerexic. my friend told my guidance counselor the day before christmas break, and she (counselor) said she would help me. she won't even talk to me now and i wonder if she doesn't care or if im not hurt bad enough yet. im sad all the time and have problems with my parents as well. i am also verbally hurt at school and really can't take it. My guidance counselor was supposed to help but i guess she doesn't want to or something. Know i just want to die.
also i feel horrible when i eat and i only eat dinner & a snack, so im not really anerexic, but my friend says i am.
god im so hurt right now.

Answer 1

Do not think you are not hurt enough. You should not be hurting at all. Your guidance councilor may not be trained enough to help. Try going to a teacher that you like (tell them the counselor isn't helping)or maybe a friends parents. Tell each one of them you need help. You can still be anorexic if you eat very little. Please seek out more help. You haven't said what you problems with your parents are but maybe you can still talk to them. If you can't find anyone try going to a walk in clinic and tell them your problem. I'm sure they would know who you could contact to get help. Maybe even call a crisis hotline. They are equipped with info to help people. Keep searching. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and things can get better. Good Luck

Answer 2

Please don't do anything else to harm yourself. Your presence on this earth means a lot to someone, you might not even realize. Being a teenager sucks, trust me I am one. But don't take it so far that you hurt yourself. Everyone has a potential in their life to make changes and fulfill thier potential.

Eating disorders can be very harmful. You may start off by eating less but then you could just cut back a little more as time passes and soon enough you will be in a hospital bed surrounded by doctors probably with an IV in your arm. Then you might be admitted to a psychologist.

It would be a whole lot easier to just start writing a journal every night, then at the end of the week look back on it and see if you still feel the same way. Sometimes we don't realize that the bad feelings do go away eventually.

PLEASE DON'T HARM YOURSELF ANYMORE!!!!!!

Answer 3

Well go tell the principle that she isn't helping you that's part of her damn job!!! First of all you need to eat more. You also need to stop cutting i know it is a way of release but it's not the best way. I am a recovered cutter and i was anerexic. You may belive by what little food you live on your not but you are i used to eat one meal a day but i still was anerexic. Please tell your parents what is going on. They will be freaked out at frist but they will be able to help you. I hope you can recover form this and i hope it will make you a stronger person!!!

Answer 4

I had the same problem with my counselor, she didn't help me at all. I'm a cutter also. I was verbally hurt all through elementary till High school. I'm so sorry for what you're going through, I wish I could say something to make your pain go away. Do you have a trusted adult or family memeber you could go to, or a youth pastor? God is also good to talk to...he knows what your going through, he's sees your pain, and he hurts for you. Try talking to him. But you also need a person to talk to because your hurting.
If you want you could talk to me,

Answer 5

well, first of all, the counselor should be fired. but that is the case for most counselors.
honestly this is well beyond my experience. I haven't a clue as to how to help you, but you are definitely not alone. Surely there is a Yahoo group for cutters and or eating disorders. If you need help over the internet, that is where i would go.

Answer 6

Hi Michelle

your guidance counsellor might not know the full extent of your problems and how low you're feeling. Try and get on the phone to her, leave her a message, just let her know your situation.

Tell your parents how you're feeling as well. Sometimes we think we don't want to approach them for one reason or another but I really think they would be there for you.

Why do you feel sad all the time? You need to get to the root of why you're sad. Please do not cut yourself. You do not deserve that. You are as special as anyone else and deserve as much happiness as anyone else. Please let your light shine. Talk through your problems instead of harming yourself. Have you told anyone you do this? If not, please tell your counsellor, a parent or another person you can talk to. Be open and allow people to help you get to the root of your sadness.

Have you ever considered meditation to help you release any negative emotions that you might be feeling? Talk to your parents or someone else you can talk to and your counsellor about meditation and hypnotherapy. Hypnotherapy could help you get to the root of why you are feeling sad.

Please make sure you eat. Make sure you get the vitamins you need.

The most important thing you can do is get onto your counsellor. She will want to help. Let her know exactly how you're feeling. Please tell your parents as well as they will want to know and they will want to help as well Michelle, I have no doubts about that. You are loved. Sometimes we think we're not but we are. People don't always show their love but their are people around you who do love you a lot Michelle. I have no doubts about that. x x x

Answer 7

We have the same thing in common. Cut ourselves and don't trust guidance counselers. I know, they make it worse. Just try doing something else besides cutting yourself. I still do it, just not as much. Now I listen to music so loud my ears fell like they're going to pop and snap myself with rubber bands. It works.

Answer 8

basically, u r not anerexic. yet. tell your doctor. these things r no joke tell your doctor imedietly. try to eat healthy agian. try to eat more than just a snack and dinner.

Answer 9

you really need to speak to your parents, they are there to protect you and keep you safe and Im sure they would do whatever they have to, to get you help, talk to them thats what they are there for. You will be glad you did. If you cant do it tell one of your friends to tell them. my daughter had problems and her friend called me and told me what was going on and I got her the help she needed and now she is a healthy girl. dont be afraid to talk to your parents. GOOD LUCK

Answer 10

>:D< hey there!
this is happening to mee too(cutting+anorexia)
and i'm hurt too
i have signs on my left arm and i thought i could get a corset piercing to hide the scars
but that may cause even more damage...
i know how it feels like to be hurt
add me on yahoo messenger if u wanna
my id is
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