I am dating a homeless girl!!!?

Question

I have been dating a homeless girl for the past few months. Its actually a great relationship. Its just like any normal relationship, except she lives in the park and it's wierd when I drop her off. I feel like she wants to stay at my place but i get crowded. And when we go out to dinner she inhales her food, she has no manners. I'm a successful lawyer so I make a lot of money, but I don't want to feel like she is only with me for money so I hardly ever pay for things. Do you think it is going to work?

Answer 1

*If you love her you will help her out! How did ya'll meet?

Answer 2

Well, use your gut instinct and be kind and compassionate! If she's having hard times and you really want to go out with her, you have the $$. Show her that you care and stop worrying about her manners. She may be really hungry, which overrides manners. She obviously wasn't brought up the same way as you. If you want it to work, stop looking down on her and open yourself up. Listen to your gut though. There has to be a reason why she's homeless. You have the means to help her get what she needs to get back on her feet. Why would you think everything is going great when you drop her off at the park? She's probably very grateful for your interest, but man, the park isn't a safe place for your woman to be staying overnight. If you don't want her staying with you, find a decent shelter or hotel to put her up in. You're as interested in her as she is in you.

Answer 3

Why don't you help her to find a job and a place to live. Then she will learn to have manners and responsibilities. I'm curious as to how you met her and how this relationship bloomed. What makes it a special relationship? How did she end up homeless? I'm a hopeless romantic so I think anything would work. However, this one is going to take a lot of effort. Maybe she's worth that effort. Maybe you should date an occupational therapist like me, I like lawyers ;) jk. good luck.

Answer 4

You sound like a cheap *** to me, if she's homeless, you care about her, feel bad dropping her at the park, yet you make good money, and hardly ever pay?
She can do better!

Answer 5

If you really like her then take her in, sure she might need money but I hardly doubt she spends her days out looking for rich guys to take care of her. She might just need someone to help her get on her feet. If you really like her then help her, don't let her sleep outside and pay for stuff it won't kill you. The guy is supposed to pay anyways. EVEN IF IT DOESN'T WORK OUT BE HER FRIEND. Be a decent human.

Answer 6

I think that if you want something more from her then you should give a little more and if this is someone that you care about then how can you sleep at night knowing she's out there to possibly be raped or killed.. take her in :) :) :)

Answer 7

you know if you didn't really like this girl you wouldn't be dating her for so long. i don't think she is just there for the money. if she wanted money so bad she could have been prostituting herself but she's not. no matter how cold she is she sits at the park bench and sleeps. she is not in it for the money. don't you feel bad dropping her off at the park while you do home sleeping in your comfortable bed while she has to sleep in the park at night when it's cold. don't you feel like a bad person sometimes when you really sit and look at it. from my understanding i don't think you are a bad person at all. i hope you;re not dating her because you feel sorry for her. i really do hope you like her and on the other hand if you didn't like her that much you wouldn't want to be seen in public with her or even come here for advice. it think you should let her move in with you and take it from there. it sounds like you too have been good so far i don;t why you shouldnt let her move in with you. but if you're not comfortable with her moving in do what you want but think about it. and put yourself in her position. if i was her i would feel bad that you drop me off in the park and then go home to your bed. not knowing if you're going to see her the next morning. it is really dangerous for her. do the right thing and take her in. you say she has no manners at all.maybe because she has been living on the streets with no one around to say thats wrong or to show her what to do. you can teach her. i think she would like that. and i think you would be pleased with the outcome if you do it yourself. just do not think that she is you child so you can tell her what to do and she does it.treat her nice. from my understanding i think you have been doing that except for when you let her pay for the meals. that is not nice at all.when you take her out you pay for the meals. that money that she uses to pay for the meals she would be able to use it the next day when you guys are not going out to buy herself something to eat.
she sounds like a really lucky girl. good luck and god be with the both of you. and if you want to know what i think ,i think you should saty with her because anything can work out as long as you want it to. you can accomplish anything in life as long as that is what you want. and i sounds like that is what you want or else you wouldnt be here asking us. go for it and treat her nice and please pay for the meals with your money.
bye and good luck.

Answer 8

bull s.h.i.t.. no lawyer would date a homeless girl. especially a successful one when he/she can get a dumb hot chic instead. btw you don't sound like a lawyer by the way you type.

Answer 9

Sounds like a gold digger to me

Answer 10

You sound dreamy!! I am sure homeless women all over the country will be throwing themselves at your feet!!!

LOL

Answer 11

if you really like this woman, think about what drew you to her in the first place? i think if you stop worrying about money so much it will work.