how do you become less sensitive and not let anyone ruin your special moments?

Question

i have a big time problem with this because things like that can make me feel really depressed sometimes & it's not the confidence issue. i feel great in my own company and the company of other, tender people. i just want to learn to ignore the other type and not mind their presence.

thanx

Answer 1

You sound very intuitive and know the kind of people you want to be around.

Just let other people do whatever it is they want to do. Have sympathy for people who behave in ways you know are wrong.

Just continue to know yourself. I'm sure you already know this but other people are not always right. Just continue to be you and know what you like and don't like.

Answer 2

u need to stay focused and keep in mind whatever u believe and what u stand for.

if a presence of a person makes u feel uncomfortable try to avoid it as soon as possible before it becomes personal if thaat is possible

sometimes confronttion may help if its done in the right manner... just make sure ur mentally prepared b4 doing it .... plan everything b4 hand.

dont let it be an attitude, it has to be soemthing that u truly believe in . a strength that comes from within

Answer 3

and you can! You just have to remember that there are shallow people out there. You are much more mature and level headed than them and probably also should know that life is too short to let such small people bother or matter to you.

Answer 4

Your intention is fine, but.... Stillness within goes beyond where you're at now.... to the point you desire. You can't get there by ignoring, it requires you to accept and be still-er ... so test yourself with situations, like this.

Answer 5

count to ten, then tell yourself these obnoxious people are either unintelligent or didnt have much home-training, and that they wont even be a distant memory for you after awhile