This was a very recent event and was a lifelong fantasy of mine, but when it happened, i thought it was terrible! I have heard from other men who have had similar experiences, saying it left a lot to be desired.
Before i experienced a 3-way, i would never have dreamed that it could be anything but heaven. Wrong! For my experience: the women were terribly brutal to each other (which shocked me). The other is, they seemed to almost have a contest on who could inflict the most damage to me, physically. No joke. One actually bit my chest hard enough to split my right nipple open!
Anyone actually have a good experience with 2 women?
2007-01-05 08:53:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I ignored the men part b/c your question interested me.
Are you serious, did this really happen as you stated???
Personally, I am starting to think that the 3sums etc are overrated. I know sooooooo many ways to have fun one-on-one that I really don't need a third (or fourth etc) person.
2007-01-05 08:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have had a few great experiences with two women. But I do have to admit, the best "threesome" I ever had is what my wife and I affectionately refer to as the "threesome that wasn't." We didn't have sex. It was an "everything but" kind of deal.
It sounds like you got a raw deal. I can't imagine my wife being brutal to anyone, me or another woman. While (if done correctly) it could be a turn on if she tried, most of the ways that come to mind that it would actually happen would be very bad for me. And biting you? No way... It sounds like the three of you should have talked a little more before hand about what was expected. Sounds like they may have wanted to fulfill the "women everywhere fighting over me" fantasy when in reality you were having the "harem of women who love to share me" fantasy. Oops... live and learn.
Remember that nothing is ever going to go exactly like it did in your fantasy. In your fantasy, the two women were all about you, had no thought of each other good or bad, etc. In reality, when two women are both naked and touching you and each other, no matter if it's on purpose or accident, they can't help but think about each other. So already your fantasy can't ever become reality. But if you're willing to accept the limits of your fantasy, reality can be a lot better, because no matter what happens in a fantasy, it's something you came up with. There are no surprises. In reality, a girl can surprise you.
Anyway, if you ever get the chance to do it again, I would say more talking before!
2007-01-05 09:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna answer from the female viewpoint. I've done this twice, with two different men, but the same woman. The women MUST be comfortable with each other, period. It should be about complete enjoyment & not a competition. That happened to me when I did a threesome with 2 guys (just for those of you who are wondering NO the guys were NOT together, it was ALL ABOUT ME)...the guys were competing on who could do this or that better. It was terrible...
It CAN be an exciting, sensual experience so don't be afraid to try it again. Just make sure that you're ALL comfortable with each other - trust is a HUGE issue here..
Last tad-bit of advice - a little S&M can be fun - but dude, get some girls that's not quite so brutal ;-)
2007-01-05 09:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had it a few times. I've also had a three way with a girl and another guy. I've enjoyed all such experiences. The first I ever had was pretty brutal. The two girls were lovers and they had a good time inflicting pain on me. I enjoyed that a great deal. The second time the girl found my partner and I attractive, so the three of us simply made love - working each other over at the sime time. My guy experiences have been about the same.
I think you have to be prepared for a very different sexual experience.
2007-01-05 08:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im female but hear me out.
well ive had 3 way with 2 men.
strange experience.usually painful.
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like you said, yes it is a competition, because 2 can pleasure one, at the same time, everybody wants to be the best- specially when there is one man involved and 2 women,
women compete when they meet eachother for the first time.
imagine in bed!the women must be compatible!
do it with people u havent met before..i suppose?
yes buddy, fantasies arent everything, but to top that off, you had a bad experience.
it wont always be like that, and sexual games, when they get rowdy, they get brutal and you ought to prepare yourself for that.
one of my fantasies was to do it in an elevator with my boufriend, in my elder brothersbuilding, the prospect of getting caught was there, and that got to me, but guess what! i ended up knocking my head so hard on the mirror in there that i cracked it!
not fun!
i'd say you put ur 3 way experience away as a little memory and lesson well learnt, so that when theres a next time, ur better prepared.
and oh one thing.
ive had a great experience with 2 women.somehow when it's all one gender[women especially] it's easier and more considerate.
and damnnnn, it was fun, not as great as full fledged sex with a guy, but great in a very very very different way.
Good luck for u next time buddy,
keep prowling
Rave
p.s- live life to the fullest and try everything, dont let your split nipple do the thinking, because he aint very happy at the moment!
2007-01-05 09:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, it was a lifelong dream. Then it happens, and you have 2 women that you want but you can only have one at a time. You want to switch all the time and it gets almost confusing. What do you do it and when? No roughness, just wierdness.
2007-01-05 08:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by melvinbenjamin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it was the first time with the both of them, and first times are, well... first times. I can't say I'd care to do it again.
I don't really think I'd want to again if I knew them both actually. But it was worth a shot I suppose.
I will have say that your experience sounds rather distasteful on the part of both of the women.
2007-01-05 08:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine was a experience and yes I did have a good time. I think if you actually fed these women before or had a good idea of their background before you got into this situation, it would have been much better.
2007-01-05 08:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you'd think a threesome with 2 women is supposed to be a fantasy, but damn, that's a nightmare!!!
I'll give you my experience(s) with threesomes. The first time was with a girlfriend and her friend. We just came home from a club one night, got drunk, and ended up all in bed together. When I woke up, my girl and I started having sex, with her friend right next to us. Slowly she got up and started to join in. Much to my shock, my girlfriend was rather inviting to the idea. But wow could I see the jealousy in her eyes when her friend and I had our turn. Needless to say, we ended up in fight after fight after that until we ended it.
The only good experience I had with 2 women in the same bed was one morning in Cancun after a night with a girl I hooked up with, we were woken up by her room mate that ran in half naked to ask us what we were doing that day. That's it.
2007-01-05 09:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dean K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dam*! Spit ur nipple back! Wow!
I've been in a 3some (MFM) and it was bad for the guys too, even thought i wasn't too bad for me.
(Emotionally traumatic or something)
Dunno..maybe 3some are just a bad idea. I've heard alot of bad things about them.
My advice:
-Don't do with a significant other
-Best is with strangers.
-Don't do while sober! (j/k)
I'd like another MFM 3some again, though, in the near future. ;)
2007-01-05 09:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by donna_nova 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋