We met through the internet, he lives in another country and he came to spend his x-mas and new year with me. Before he left back to his home country he told me I should wait for him to decide because there are other girls on his list , meaning he wants to compare and find the one of his choice. Should I wait? , I liked him pls help!
2007-01-05 08:51:20 · 22 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a jerk
2007-01-05 09:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Danny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he doesn't seem that keen,if he has to meet others. If you were the one then he should ditch them and go for it with you. Anyway why should he expect you to wait for him to decide, you have a choice as well. I would lose interest very quickly if I was told that I was just one of many on a list he is working through. Besides from your question he seems a little arrogant, thoughtless and uncaring to expect you to sit around waiting for him to say "yes". Find someone who wants to be with you for definite and is not just window shopping. Start looking for someone else and don't turn down someone who could be just right for you on the off chance this boy may decide you'll do after all. Good luck and don't get hurt!
2007-01-05 09:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by teaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!! FLIP IN ECK stop trying to pick up people on the Internet and join some clubs so that you can interact. The Internet isn't a way to make real friends unless you meet with them on a regular basis. Get out more and forget someone who keeps you on a flippin list. Don't wait for crumbs. Find a person that values you and puts you first. BOG TO HIM
2007-01-05 08:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What nonsense is that?
The guy has a cheek!
Come on, don't you start playing meek, or meek it will be until death do you part!
Come on, there are plenty of guys out there.
This guy is not worth it, if after spending all Christmas with you and New Year he sitll wants you to wait for comparison.
Don't make yourself that cheap and available.
He should be the one afraid to lose you.
Even if I understand that he doesn't want to rush, there are better ways of saying something like that.
Don't let him be that big headed.xx
2007-01-05 09:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you like someone but if he 'chooses' you then you're going to always feel like you are going to be compared with other women. Also, is he going to stay faithful? When he's back home, would you be able to trust him?
Don't wait - cross him off your contacts and find someone at home who can love and appreciate you for who you are instead of comparing you to others and taking your confidence in the meantime.
2007-01-05 08:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Cat burgler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont bother waiting on him. You were good enough to share your xmas and new year with him then he has the cheek to say he has a list to get through! There is a guy more deserving of you out there this guy has just used you you desrve better.x
2007-01-05 11:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by collette h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!!..what an arsehole thsi guy is..other girls on his list.No girl you must not wait for this man..what has got to offer you..you wait for him?
...and how long will you wait?..i suspect he treats all women like this..do a role reversal and see how a man would feel if you said"well..i have other men on mky list..so wait and see and i will get back to you when and if it pleases me!!!
move on and use this as a good learning experince..he really is not worth it.
2007-01-05 08:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by janine s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you poor darling, please dont wait for this man, how dare he ask you to wait. for a start off he lives in another country and it wouldent have worked anyway, the men in this country are lovely(well some of them anyway) find a nice man over here they r out there u just have to look for them, dont waste ur time on this looser even if you did like him. take some advise from me its the best thing. good luck lol.
2007-01-05 09:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by wiccawoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! he sounds like a jerk! Girlssss???? LIST??? what an a$$hole! you deserve better. Tell him to chose and you are not waiting around for him. If he choses someone else think of it as a nice Christmas holiday you spend with a cute guy & NOTHING MORE.
2007-01-05 08:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he's going to be a great lover anyways even if you do wait. Something tells me he'll get over you quick. Personally, I wouldn't wait for him. There are plenty other fish in the sea.
2007-01-05 08:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Savvy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why wait get rid of this idiot and meet a nice guy who wont have to decide from a list of people
2007-01-05 08:53:45 · answer #11 · answered by julie t 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋