how do you motivate a lazy man who does not want to be motivated?

Answer 1

Tell him your gonna leave. Or tell him you are thinking about another man. Make promises that will give him motivation. Stop feeding him. Tie his wrists to the bumper of your car. Put catnip in his crotch and go to the pets store.

Answer 2

You may motivate a person by any means of coercion but that does not mean there is some sort of ennobling on his part. All humans coordinate, cooperate or collaborate with reality. One can coordinate actively to reality but does not necessarily in a way others would expect, He can coordinate so as to not be included in social activity too.

Answer 3

There is an old joke about how many shrinks does it take to change a light bulb.....

Only one, but the light bulb has to want to change......

No one can make someone exercise, work or do anything they absolutely dont want to do. They have to make the decision to change on their own.

Of course, if you are a spouse or whatever, you can offer extra incenitives like more sex for every 10 pounds lost or whatever, and of course you can offer support....

Answer 4

It all depends on what he is being lazy about meaning he may not want to get a job,keep the house clean, or maybe depressed so you need to go more into detail.

Answer 5

Give him an ultimatum. You will do such and such by Saturday or you will be sitting on the curb.

Answer 6

you can't. only He can motivate himself.

Answer 7

If he doesn't want to do something then he doesn't want to do it and you can't make him. No matter what it is.

Answer 8

Leave him

Answer 9

swift kick in the *** is the first thing that comes to mind.....

Answer 10

Loaded gun.