It gets kinda depressing sometimes. Im always randy and i cant do anything. My bf believes in no sex before marriage. It drives me crazy. And i dont want to be a whore and just get some from anyone. What do i do?
2007-01-05 08:32:18 · 49 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, you're on your own... I am of the opinion that I am the master of my desires, not the other way around... it takes discipline.
2007-01-05 08:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by just nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until I got married and let me tell you, it wasn't always easy waiting because I'm the same way you are. My husband and I both waited and we are glad we did. It was totally worth it. Be glad you have a guy with morals. That is a hard quality to find in men these days. I still want it all of the time! And no end in sight! It gets depressing for me cause I'm turned on ALL OF THE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sick of it. But if I changed, then I wouldn't be "me". So I guess it's just something we have to live with.
2007-01-05 08:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off if you really love him you you would wait...and not find someone else...imagine things were switched around and you were in his position...you would feel hurt and betrayed that he leave you for someone else and just for sex....and then you would have another reason to say men are dogs...so just wait it out and talk 2 him long until you come 2 a decision and keep his feelings in mind...if he's anything like me he wouldn't want you 2 get mad and then do something 2 make u happy when he feels bad and then have him regret it l8r and his life be ruined....If you honestly can't wait then i guess it is time 2 move on...but if he loves you his life would be crushed...just don't do anything out of horomonic sexual hunger...plus u have other options like getting a vibrator...if that'll feel comfy 2 u....but whatever you do TALK TO HIM....he'll understand if he truly cares about u....
2007-01-05 08:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well other than the obvious (going out and keeping the lights darkened).....
Two things to try;
1- Talk to your b/f and maybe at least 'ramp it up a little'...
2- Try something a bit more 'virtual'...
There is nothing 'wrong' with feeling this way.... and its funny that it is usually one of the two people in the relationship and rarely both at the same time.....
2007-01-05 08:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by wolf560 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are many things you could do. Such as, masterbation, anal stimulation, or even dry humping (usually works better with a finger, dildo, or vibrator). Thats all i can think of, whenever i;m in the mood i just masterbate. Everyone does it so dont be embarressed. Also You can use the removable shower head (if you have one)
2007-01-05 08:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by HeheheShabootie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have a good BF. Buy some toys as far as why your in the mood all the time, maybe it's just the way you are.
I'm sure some guys will come on here asking if they can quench your never ending thirst.
2007-01-05 08:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well more than likely its because you know you can't do it. My husband & I lived 13 hrs by plane apart for 1 yr starting 15 days after I got married! If you really love him believe me its worth the wait.
2007-01-05 08:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by tabitha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bf why he believes in no premarital sex, and that might help you. He likely respects you and wants to make sex special, which in today's society gets most men dumped. :)
He sounds like a good catch.
2007-01-05 08:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tony K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and dont want to be with any one else then play the game alone go to a porn shop and find something fun for your self other wise go get your game on hunny
2007-01-05 08:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got o your local adult store, and pick up a pleasure toy. My wife and I still use them, they can be really fun and big too! I did not wait till after marraige, but I was always in the mood, so we did it, all the time!! You can fool around, just do not go all the way
2007-01-05 08:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by krisoconnor7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy a BOB
(Battery Operated Boyfriend)
Its a Vibrator
2007-01-05 08:34:37 · answer #11 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋