I'm usually pretty good at attracting girls, 20 yo, but i've not been emotionally tied to a particular girl for like, 7 years, since I was in my puberty years.
Me and some of my friends had a New Year's Party at a weekend house. We stayed there for 5 days, and I didn't know most of the people. I've had my eyes on one girl, A., which I eventually succeeded with. But there was also another girl, I., who wasn't even on my target list, and we didn't interact at all for a few days. But since the first day, I felt a powerful feeling of attraction towards her. Couldn't explain it. Logically, I shouldn't like this girl, as she doesn't fit the description of what I'm looking for. Still, 3 days have passed since I've last seen her, and been hoping this feeling would go away. But it doesn't. It grows stronger. Like a virus, eating my system.
What's your opinion? What is there to do?
2007-01-05 08:08:38 · 10 answers · asked by Andrei C. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"succeeded with" means we're on the right track. I know the next steps, so it ain't gonna be hard. I don't love A. though. She's just like any other girl I've met in the past 7 yrs.
2007-01-05 08:20:54 · update #1
It sounds a lot like you're a 20-year-old guy.
I don't know what you mean by "succeeded with" (went out? slept with her? what?) and the "first day" with the second one (did you mean "first DATE")?
Maybe I. wasn't (or didn't seem) all that interested in you, and her playing (or being) hard-to-get stoked your competitive nature. Since she doesn't seem as accessible as the other one, you're obsessing about her.
In other words...you sound just like a 20-year-old guy!
EDIT: Just because you know what to do next doesn't mean that you're on the "right path" with A. - it just means that you know which buttons to push to evoke certain reactions (i.e., that you've traveled this path before). I. is less predictable, and that's why you're more intrigued by her.
So I stand by my original diagnosis: you sound like a 20-year-old guy!
2007-01-05 08:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in love at first sight.
I believe in LUST and INFATUATION at first sight, but not love.
I'm thinking you are infatuated with her, even though you don't know her. As for love? I highly doubt it.
" She's just like any other girl I've met in the past 7 yrs."
Haven't you grown since you were 20? Haven't your preferences changed?
2007-01-05 16:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is love. the same thing happened with my girlfriend when i first saw her. I guess you love both of them. This is okay untill you get married. Try talking to them thoruughly and then make your choice.
2007-01-05 16:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by BKool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you have a target list.... Gross. Its not love. Its lust. Maybe there is something special about her. Be nice.
2007-01-05 16:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind over matter
2007-01-05 16:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Savanna L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u like her so much ..she is not listed in ur target list but she attracted you u should add her up in your list
2007-01-05 16:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST NEVER MISS WHAT YOU NEVER HAD
SECOND,I GUESS IT IS THOSE GIRLS WHO CATCH OUR ATTENTION FOR NO PARTICULAR REASO,LOVE?NO,HUGE ATTRACTION YES,TEST DRIVE AND SEE WHAT BECOMES OF YOUR FEELINGS.
2007-01-05 16:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously you like her...definitely not love yet...
2007-01-05 16:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont knock something diff. until you try it...
2007-01-05 16:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beat it.....
2007-01-05 16:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by tonie... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋