My gf is impossible to open up to. She dont want to discuss anything at all about our relationship and feelings. She wont open up to me nor does she want me to open up to her. If I ask her or try to bring up a subject about anything on my mind she gets angry and defensive even when there is nothing in the subject matter that should causes her to be upset. This goes for all subject matters from how much I love her to sex to about our relation ship. She dont talk about nothing with me. i thought all women like to have a man open up to them and them to open up to. Whats wrong?
2007-01-05 07:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't communicate with her now, you never will be able to. Find someone else to be with. Relationships sans communication are doomed.
2007-01-05 07:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the girl has issues. Maybe she has secrets. Or is afraid to get close. The only advice I can give you is try. And eventually let go if you have to. Most people dont change. Sorry Good Luck.
2007-01-05 07:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a women who is limiting you.. Not the relationship you want.. but if you really like her. learn to communicate thru letters.. she can read them without you present. OUt of the line of fire.
2007-01-05 07:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say either get some relationship conseling or dump her. the whole point of being in a relationship is to not only be with someone, but to share your thoughts and feelings with them. if she doesnt want to listen and is getting all mad for no reason,dump her.
2007-01-05 07:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump her!! If she never wants to talk then wats the point bein w/ her?
2007-01-05 07:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a nutcase.
2007-01-05 08:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋