this is to black people?

Question

how come a lot of you dont want to date white boys, but if u do date one he has to be a wigga, i date one and he isnt a wigga and i will never hear the end of it, black gurls and especially black guys say rude things to me. whats wrong with white boys, they work hard to give their girlfriend/wives things, they will do anything to please you. they can be a lil over protective but that shows they care. and they all dont have small things

also how come a lot of black men tend to dislike it and do ignorant things when u see a white man and black gurl together. when most of you do the samething, i hear some of u guys laugh and say u need a real ******

as for brandy i know i should branch out and ask other questions but this particular subject bothers me, u dont know what i go through becuase i am a black gurl and he is a white boy, i just wanna get to the root of the problem

Answer 1

I can feel where you are coming from and I too am black and my girlfriend is white but, where we live it is very common to see interracial couples together(Down South). When a black man is with a white woman most blacks think, "Aw, he's taking her money and using her" or "she with him for the size of his penis and he's a thug"! When a black woman is with a white man most blacks think,"she tricking him out of his money and he paying her bills" or "he must be fulfilling his fantasy of having a sis-ta on his arm"! I could go on and on with this. We will never get pass the color barrier and for some people that's just their fault they are limiting there chances of true love by sticking with only their race. Sad to say some people will never change, just go on with your life and let the "haters" hate. I really wish you the best because, I am in your shoes too.

Answer 2

First I'm a black woman and we all can date whom ever we choose to. You know even if you were with a black man your own color people will still talk. So honey it really don't matter but you have to be happy for yourself if no on else is. But I must say that you will see more black guys with more white women or girls then you would white guys with black girls! Am I right? Now I question why is that. Is it just that men of color are more attractive to white women then white men are to black women. I'm curious about that. Dam that's a question I can ask but that will be 5 points that I would be giving up and I'm trying hard to get to level 3.

Answer 3

i'm not black really i'm quite tan but i'll answer anyways....okay so technically my ethnicity would be african american and I have dated white/caucasin boys before. And they were really smart nerdy kinda guys. I don't care what color a guy is, I look for certain qualities, so if he's smart, has a good personality and can take care of me if i needed him to, then I could care less if he was blue,purple, black or whatever_that would be funny though :)
anyways...some people did judge me because of it but I just ignored them. I mean it's a double standard really. You see black guys and white girls all the time and people don't judge them near as much as they do a black girl and a white guy. I'd rather be happy with anyone no matter what color, than be with a thug or gangsta because I'm black and that's what is expected of me.

Answer 4

well i am majority black, so i guess i can answer!
i think black men comment on a black GIRL w/ a white GUY because it reminds them of slavery. even though that was long ago, people are still that way....... not me though!

and i myself am personally not attracted to white men, but then again, i live in a predominantly black neighborhood, where it is very rare to see someone who isn't black. and there werent many white people in the schools that i went to either, so i think that it also depends on the type of environment that you were brought up in.
and i would probably never date a "wigga," mainly because i think its kind of insulting, and basically like dating someone who is making fun of your race.
but thats just my opinion, and i think everyone should just date who they are attracted to, no matter what their race is, as long as they are happy.

and kudos to you for being with whoever you want, regardless of what people say! i wish there were more people like you who just did their own thing without worrying bout others!

Answer 5

That's a pretty big question. I don't know why black ppl don't like to date white ppl...let's think of this logically..maybe the ppl around you are like that. I have many black friends with white companions and they're doing just fine. There's just way to much negativity around you. Plus society today is like that as well..and just pin pointing black people as the reason for this is just wrong.. it's a matter of both sides not coming together for the same reason.

Answer 6

Well, I dated a white guy, and yes ALOT of guys were hatin on him b/c he was with me. He was so sexy and such a sweetheart, but it seemed like he was trying to take me from my friends! He would always take me around his friends. We couldn't be downtown going to the movies, we had to be up my end (an hour out of the city). Its so funny, I never realized how different we were until I was really close with him. I think that if you love someone, it shouldn't matter about color, but if that person only wants you in one particualr circle (doing it blatant or indirectly (keep those eyes open)), than u should stand true to yourself

Answer 7

This is silly. Date who you want. They aren't the ones that you have to sit up and look at consistently. And if he (the white guy) is doing right by you then thats all that matters. A true man is hard to come by as it is...

Im about to start checking nursing homes. LMAO!

Answer 8

One word - jealousy. Don't listen to the haters, enjoy what you have.

I used to get picked on because I was a good student. Now I have a great job and family and the haters are still living at their parents house.

Love between two people is a very strong bond, it doesn't matter what other people think.

Answer 9

You seem to have a one-tracked line of questioning and answering. Why does all your topics include some sort of racial aspect. There are a ton of other categories to choose from, you should branch out a bit more and trying something more intelligent. This subject is old.

Answer 10

I'm black. I've dated about four white men. On every occasion I was forced to break up with them because black men were giving me such a hard time for dating outside my race. They would glare at us, challenge my boyfriend, cuss us out in the street.

Here's the deal: black men are cool with white men dating black girls but only if the black girl in question is ugly.