i met someone who i thought was perfect for me, i thought we'd be together, but in the end nothing happend..
were we meant to be just friends..
i heard a quote b4 it says "God doesnt give you ppl you want he gives you ppl you need"..
So y did He give me someone that would hurt me soo much when i ve already been hurt way too much in the past...?
2007-01-05 07:27:09 · 6 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everything happens for a reason. There is someone else you have yet to meet who will be the one. You are not the first person who has gone through this but you must learn from this experience. The truth is that sometimes we make poor choices when selecting who we fall in love with. Other times circumstances are just beyond our control and things don't work out.
You will know it is right when you both feel the same way for each other. when being with him fills your heart with happiness - not anxiety or sadness. When he puts you and your needs before his own. When he is always there for you when needed. Men like that do exist - I just married mine :)
2007-01-05 07:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by April 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everything happens for a reason, you have probably learned lessons in the recent relationship that you haven't learned in the other relationships. maybe your learning these lessons for the next lucky guy that your going to date and who knows, maybe get married with. just keep in mind one thing, never be afraid to be happy, if you do, then it won't work. also, try not to date assholes or guys that look georgous or cute unless they are truely unique and have morals and most importantly, knows how to treat a girl and tries not to get in your pants to soon. look some where else. you'll find that special person, keep looking.
2007-01-05 15:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by dj idk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are catholic this is a good answer for you ok in the our father in one of the parts it says thy kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven it is just his will to do that to but he may have done that for a reason cuz maybe if you were together he could kill you or something but remember you will have to leave it in Gods hands it he's will and maybe later you might find a even better boy believe it!
2007-01-05 15:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by john john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is a player. Don't trust him too much. And don't relate everything to him. You can never ask him 'Why did you break my heart again ?" for you very well know he can not answer.
Keep your hopes high. You will find someone who will never hurt you. And that is the time when you realize that God is really a player !
2007-01-05 15:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cyphor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know God has plans for you my friend. everything has a purpose. But know our God will not give us this kind of trials if we are not strong enough to face it. I think you need to establish first your relationship with God and mark my word he give what is better for you. you never know that guy might be just around you. have faith and trust on him. God bless you
2007-01-05 15:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes ppl come into our lives to test us; how we react to a situation is what makes us weaker or stronger ( hopefully we can learn from it.)
it doesnt mean he will be your friend or your bf.
2007-01-05 15:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋