honest about some things. He has baby mama drama. He owns a house and over the summer she moved in w/ him due to her having a fight with her mom. He let her come live w/ him because of the baby. Long story short, she moved out but she doesnt have a job so he's paying for her rent until she gets on her feet. But he swares up and down that there is nothing going on. He says if he doesnt do certain things she will keep the baby from seeing him. Is it just me or do you think he can find a better solution to deal with this? Please respond!!
2007-01-05 07:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run girl Run......I went through that crap too. My ex didn't move her in but....he did everything for her. Everytime she called, he ran to her rescue and it used to piss me off. Finally, 3 years later, he dumped me when she decided she wanted him back. If he can't let her solve her own problems then he is still stuck on her. RUN as fast as you can because you will get burned. They have a child that bonds them and she seems like she will always be around. My ex swore up and down nothing was going on there too and that he wasn't in love with her and I was Mrs Forever....BS......RUN.
2007-01-05 07:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by thewhalehunter12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, for starters if he is using the excuse that she will take the baby from him and not allow him to see the baby then that is wrong. Because he has the stable house and the job not her she does not have anything, so legally he will be able to get full custody being that he is able to be the full provider for the baby. He needs to go to a lawyer and get that resolved first and then this will no longer be a issue for him and he can stop using this excuse. It may be that nothing is going on between them because she moved out and if something was going on then chances are that she would still be living there but talk to him ask him questions and tell him how your honestly feeling. good luck and take care.
2007-01-05 07:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, you look as though a clever female, so i'll enable you comprehend at as quickly as up what i think of roughly this: First the guy looks immature in accordance on your tale, 2nd he looks a finished participant, 0.33 you assert that the reason you enjoyed him became because of the fact human beings enjoyed him appropriate away, o.ok. get it, the guy has some aura, so which you're actually not likely to be the only one liking him notwithstanding he's not pleasing. My question is how excessive are you attempting to get with this guy?, are you searching for a protracted term relationship or only to play alongside and proceed this game until you fall for him. From my very own experience I married a charismatic guy who occurred to be Scottish and he ended up being a finished moron and have confidence me the worst element that would occurred to you is which you will possibly have the flexibility to incredibly fall in love with this guy and then discover out he's a cheater, liar, and a finished douchebag. Please admire your self and circulate directly to somebody which would be relaxing yet honest as nicely. superb desires!
2016-10-30 02:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by atalanta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use that gut feeling you have and just keep an eye on him. Truth is this is what happens when a man had a previous life with someone else. Don't get crazy until you actually witness something between them until then trust him and keep in mind there is a child that binds them that's it.
2007-01-05 07:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly some women r milking ther baby's daddy like that nowadays that i know. but do u know y women have babies in there gut because its the stongest alert system we have if our gut feels funny about something trust it it always knows. but dont accuse him talk to him nice and calm first feel him out.
2007-01-05 07:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋