What is the big deal. Why is it so hard to wait? And if you dont wait why cant you control yourself?
2007-01-05 07:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm still a virgin at 25, and it hasn't been too hard. Its difficult when you in The moment, but you just have to remember to think about you and your needs, rather then those of your partner. I've had ample opportunity, and sometimes its been difficult, but I made a decision when I was in school, to finish school first, then I decided to wait until my 18th birthday, then my 21st. After that I was like, why not wait at the very least until I meet someone who I can see myself marrying. And I'm still waiting. I think the bigger problem, lies in that once you do it - you may just end up doing it within every relationship you find yourself - whether its serious or not.
2007-01-05 07:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the odd factor here. It is a game established long ago and now continues as if there were something different because of it. It is also a way to say "I love you" and for some that is different than before where such a statement hasnt been said. I married because I wanted to say to the girl that she was worth more and deserved all I could do for her. The sex after was more... I mean... she was totally more active during intercourse, like she wanted to get pregnant. Although we did have a lot of sex before we married it wasnt as good as it was after we got married.
2007-01-05 15:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the big deal in waiting? Many people do not wish to marry and many see marriage as something more important than a license to have sex.
Wait if you want but don't think you are better than people who don't.
2007-01-05 15:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Elvendra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's good to have premarital sex so you know who pleases you in bed. Remember this is the person you will spend the rest of your life with. I know people will lie that SEX is not that important But believe me it plays a major role in a marriage.
2007-01-05 15:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Life is FUn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waiting may be ideal for some but some people never want to marry. Other than religious reasons why should people have to be married? As long as they are careful and selective then why should we care what they do behind closed doors?
2007-01-05 15:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, do'nt buy a car w/o taking it for test drive do you?
2007-01-05 15:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by wedged15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋