iv known this boy for a year and we used to date bt parted coz we neva saw wach other!
i admitted to him that i still had strong feelings about him and he admitted the same to me!
since we split up we became veryvery strong matea and we have a special bond and we both agree that we want to get bak togethre bt he has admitted to comitment issues and noit wanting to wreck friendship! what do i do this guy is my world and i love him and i want him how do i make him realise that nothing will break our relationship????//
wbx
2007-01-05 07:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by pwincess_blodzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the spelling its my keyboard!
the commitment issues are that he feels weird in a relationship and hes had so many problems in the past that hes scared ! we are both 16 and have a trong bond like iv never had with eny ex! also im seeing him tomorrow and am very worired il mess up ive had bad luck with men lately
2007-01-05 07:22:19 · update #1
you better release that love for him. talk to him heart to heart. and tell him what you feel. it doesn't matter what the circumstances maybe as long as you both love each other, why wait for it, release that feeling. hey both love each other and that what matters most. Stay in love
2007-01-05 07:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that introduced me to a guy a year and a half ago. I only wanted friends. The last 4 months my friends kept telling he liked me more than friends, etc... I told him about it and he backed away. We used to do something every week together, like go out to eat. He would do something around my house and I would take him out to eat as payment. We were friends. We would go and do things. When my friends told me these things, it put the idea in my head and I was dissappointed that he wasn't interested. After he backed away and I questioned him about it. He also said the same thing, "Why ruin a good thing?" He didn't want to ruin our friendship.
About a month ago, things changed and his feeling changed. We started dating. If it is meant to be, when the timing is right, things will fall into place. If you try to rush things, they will not work, if the timing isn't right. You guys can remain friends and continue to do things together. I always said I wanted to marry my best friend. You have to be friends first anyway. Now that we are friends, we can focus on becoming dating partners. We both have the same morals and we will not be intimate in a physical way unless we decide to walk down the isle. That makes it all the more better. We are just taking it slow and one day at a time. We both have not been with anyone for quite some time and doing this together is fun.
Just be yourself and he will see you as you are. It isn't you that needs to convince him. It is all him and his inner self that he needs to learn about. My boyfriend tells me, it was devine intervention for him. I went out of my comfort zone to fly in his plane with him, that made him see me in a new light. He actually had been fighting it for a while. He was having a fight within himself and with God. You just have to have patience. Prayer also works. I found out that there were several people praying for us to get together that I had no idea was praying. Hang in there, if it is meant to be, it will be. I will pray for you too. Hugs to you both.
2007-01-05 15:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has commitment issues... do you really think you guys are going to be together by the age of 21? (assuming that you are still in highschool by the way you talk)
Well, if you have the power to convince a guy that your relationship will never break, just by SAYING something, write a book and make lots of money because so far, I don't think anyone's found those magic words yet.
2007-01-05 15:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by smooshcrickets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrecking a friendship is the oldest line in the world. If you never give something a try, you never know what can happen. If you lose him both as a friend and a boyfriend, other folks come along.
2007-01-05 15:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Other than the spelling I can't see a problem here
EITHER YOU LOVE EACH OTHER OR YOU DON'T
IF YOU DO THEN YOU WILL FIND A SOLUTION TO ANY PROBLEMS THAT YOU THINK YOU MIGHT HAVE
IF YOU CANNOT FIND A WAY THEN THE LOVE IS NOT SO STRONG AS YOU MIGHT HAVE THOUGHT
2007-01-05 15:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and see what happens. Don't wait around too long though, some people never change. Good luck :)
2007-01-05 15:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by closetmeateater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Click on the: Check Spelling Button First, And then do what your heart tells you , remember it's your life!
2007-01-05 15:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you love him take him on a date and you guys well talk about both if your relationships and see how is it goin on.
2007-01-05 15:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by muntaz h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean by you never saw each other? okay heres wat you do: you ask him where he is and go there or let him come to you and say to your parents that you wanna go explore the world
(if you are lke old enough) 18 yrs old will do
2007-01-05 15:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has commitment issues then maybe there is something he isn't telling you.
2007-01-05 15:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lindser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋