How can we do?

Question

I love him and he adores me so much.but we are so far.We can't meet each other cause of my Dad.He studies in S'pore and i live in Japan.I want to go S'pore cause of him and my education.but my father not allow me to go there.How should i do? My boyfriend and my Dad,Who I've to choose??

Answer 1

Well you should choose half of your boy friend and half of your dad.Like cut them in half and bring them together and connect 2 things to one got it???

Answer 2

Father knows best.

Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and if this bf is very fond of you, adores and loves you deeply, he will make whatever efforts are possible to remain as close to you as he is able. He will phone you, visit you, write you - whatever it takes. But time may show a different side of him - and would you rather wind up with Dad, or some beau who figures out that he wasn't quite in love with you as he first thought?

Dad's naturally love you forever - the boyfriend has to LEARN to love you.

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Answer 3

Are you an adult? Can you truly be responsible for yourself--meaning if you go to be with this boy are you expecting your father to foot the bill in ANY way--tuition, food, rent... If you're still depending on Dad, then you probably aren't ready to choose the boy. If you can carry your own wieght and take care of yourself (without the boy--he may not be around fo rthe long hual either just yet) then go where you want to go.

Good luck

Answer 4

My heart goes out to you. Have you ever met this guy? If not, maybe someday. Don't ever turn your back on your family because no matter what they will be there for you. Here in America people always say that blood is thicker than water. My you find a way to get through this and have it all work out. Be patient and maybe your friend can come there to visit you and your family.

Answer 5

You Can Pick your Friends, but you cant pick your family. All I cans suggest is that if your truely love him tell your dad to f-off and go be in love. However if there is any doubt that you are going to get used or that this not going to work out, Stay with your father. Also if you can support yourself outside your family do it. If you get out of his house you are no longer under his direct control. Sometime distance helps families get together better.

Will

Answer 6

Why dont you choose yourself and make the decision to go where your future can benifit from the most?
Maybe it isnt either place but if you get away from your father you can still have the boy around when you want him.
Growing up and being more adult is what moving out and moving on is all about :)

Answer 7

have u actually met this guy in real life? if u haven't, maybe ur thinking in fantasyland. don't lose ur dad over someone u've never met. u must like each other on the outside as well as the inside. y doesn't he come up to see u? i love japan. i'd love to visit there, y wouldn't he? jus follow ur heart. ur dad shouldn't make u choose like that. that's so cruel. jus fly him up. ur dad won't even kno he's in town.

Answer 8

First, I'm a Parent? So I'm gonna see it from Dad's view point. As much as you may think of this guy? You may never have him. forever. But you'll always have Dear ol' Dad! He's the one, who knows what's best for you.

Answer 9

In a way... I'm in that same situation. But with me, me and my b/f are in the same state but different cities. I've decided to finish school first, and then move with him. My education is very important... so I'm taking it day-by-day. You should do the same!

Answer 10

choose your future first,if your dad is supporting you financially then choose your dad,you can always find a boyfriend but you only have one dad