Im 17 and shes 15, it kind of sliped that i cant imagine us haveing sex (she has never done it, and it wouldnt hapen til i come back form another country in half a year) now shes abit mad at me.
Shes the kind of girl thats really hard to get coz everyone wants her. The thing is, i kind of assume shes a bit too young (the thing with talking about sex without laughing), she has no experiance in that case and now she thinks that i think shes just a litle girl (which i dont)
PS im not asking for an answer how to get it fixed, just your oppinion
2007-01-05 06:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by remove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, got alot of oppinions here :) i worked it out before i read this all, and as many ppl sayd ive told her that i care about her, not about us haveing sex.
One thing, im not too young, done that pleanty of times, and most of the girls guess im over 20before they learn my age ;)
Second thing, i wouldnt be a rapist, the law allows sex from 14 to 18 and 18 to whatever. Since im 17 its all good.
Third thing, by the time i get there, she will turn 16 (i had my first time 16)
Fourth thing, shes not crazy about haveing sex :) she just felt like a litle child when i "said" (in many sentences) i cant imagine us doing that.
Fifth thing... I guess its all gonna be fine ^^ thx for your oppinions
2007-01-05 07:42:35 · update #1
it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulder and have her best interest at heart. yes, she is too young and immature to play with fire and kuddos to you for acknowledging that. most boys your age would jump on the opportunity to have sex with anyone and you should stick to your guns. explain to her that you care about her too much to do that. why rush? obviously your not leaving to get "that" from other places. use this time to enjoy each others company and do other "flirty" things. you have the rest of your lives, and anyway, most girls dont truly enjoy sex until they are older. trust me, im 33 and have been down that road. there are others things you can do to please each other, other than sex, find those things. good luck
2007-01-05 07:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by CATHRYN K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As an HIV Counselor, I can tell you my opinion to be very valid, it's what I'm trained to do.
Actually you are both too young (emotionally) to get sexually involved.
If you need to have sex with her in order to be the one who "got" her, than you are not ready for a relationship with this girl.
From what you are saying, she doesn't sound like she is very mature and needs to grow-up a little herself.
If she laughs when you talk about it, then she is very immature.
Besides, legally she is underage and if you have sex with her, you will be commiting statutory rape, a felony.
Also, you did not mention anything about using protection. Abstinence is the only way you cannot get an STD/HIV or pregnancy.
Think smart, don't do it.
2007-01-05 07:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by manna8888 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-06 12:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think you should just relax. Just take care of business and when that time comes it comes it doesn't come it doesn't come. Meanwhile say something to her that is going to boost up her moral and throw yours in there to boot. There is nothing better than making another person feel good about themselves. Let her know that when you think of her you don't think about sex, you think only about her that type of thing.
2007-01-05 07:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my opinion...she's a child. Most 15 year old girls are not virgins, and for her to be obviously means that she holds that very special to herself. Maybe she has been waiting for "Mr. Right" and thought she found that in you. And the comment that you made, yeah, that could be a little heartbreaking. good luck.
2007-01-05 07:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by ~~kelly~~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like that you respect that it would be her first time and i think you should explain that to her, i could only imagine if you are her her that you want it to be perfect in all ways so i would just explain to her that you cant imagine have sex with her right now as the perfect time has not arised
good luck
2007-01-05 07:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by maisyn3m ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 aint so young, i doubt she is a virgin. You had better cover your tracks and say that you meant to say that in your wildest dreams you couldnt even imagine how it would be to have sex with her. Or something lame that guys say to silly little girls.
2007-01-05 07:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are correct - she is too young and needs to grow up... also might want to look at the local laws concerning statutory sexual situations.... to cover your own butt.
2007-01-05 06:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Codi 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Too young, taker a break or something.
2007-01-05 07:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by starsperhaps 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's too young and so are you, dont do it. Dont be the one to leave her scarred and feeling cheap.
2007-01-05 06:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Chick-a-Dee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋