this girl i met this year she is good friends of mine and i help her out alot. i love her personalty and she is the most beautiful person ive ever seen. i think she likes me too since she thinks im funny. but there are these awekward moments when we wait for the bell to ring and we just stand next to each other and she stares at the ceiling and stuf and if i look at her she will look away or eithe i do or her. i always say huh and stuff and she laughs for no reason but she is always looking the other way and trying to ignore me. same as me. we are both really shy. she e ven said " i love u" i have never heard her say that plus she is really shy, loud girls usually say that. if i ask her somethign she smiles but when we see each otehr int he hall way. i naturally ignore her and she does it too. by the way im 15 years old i really want to ask this girl out i love her. and we are both pretty mature. iif theres a guy bothering her i tell em to **** off and defend her but im tootoaskherout
2007-01-05 06:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im the kind of guy that looks for a serious relations ship even though im young. and no i dont do it for the sex. in fact other guys arent really attracted to her i just like her cause of who she is.
2007-01-05 07:04:12 · update #1
If you really like her then just say so and let her know how you really feel about her. If you think she feels the same and you know she's shy also then somebody has to make the first move. It may as well be you. If you don't then you may never know.
2007-01-05 06:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to ask her out you dont have to be shy about it.When you plan on asking her out just be yourself.Dont try to hard to impress her.because that sometimes turns into guys becoming show-offs.Thats the last thing a girl wants in her life.But yeah just be yourself.It doesn't matter if you are shy because it takes a lot of guts,and thats what woman look for in a man is bravery.Well I wish you the best of luck,I say GO FOR IT!!!And if she really loves you then she'll say yes.
2007-01-05 06:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lou Zerface- X-]p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shynies is the worst thing ever when i was in this class there was this girl and i realy liked here but i never talked to her naw i FINALY built up the curage but i can't reach her ever and if you can't build coruge try sending an e-mail you feel less shy becouse she isnt going to answer you back at that moment
2007-01-05 06:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by somebody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, ur not in love, trust me. i know. i'm 25 and thinking back to 15, hell no. ur both young so ur both gonna be shy. be the man and take control. when u two walk somewhere together, grab her hand. the reason she looks away so much is she is shy dude. you have to make the move. be a MAN. if u said ur mature, act like a man. try to hold her hand. and give her a kiss on the cheek. when she sees that ur comfortable, she'll come around. good luck!
2007-01-05 06:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
with everything you've said I think you guys both want to be with each other. And if you can stand up to a guy who is bothering her you can find courage to ask her out. I hope you guys work out good luck!
2007-01-05 06:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Marianita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are in a tough situation.......Just be yourself, be happy, and everything will fall into place. But while waiting for that happyending to happen..... I suggest writing her a note telling her how you feel. But give it to her in person... and DO NOT make someone else give it to her. All the cheesey..self centered guys do that. Just casually walk past her and casually hand her the note.......and casually walk away!! LOL!!! Please email me back and let me know how things went.....spartamonkey14@yahoo.com....
2007-01-05 06:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by spartamonkey14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, You got a lot of livin', to do. First! Don't think that you know what Love is. And, (being honest) I don't think you're little Lady knows, either. But what you feel, is that desire to be with her. And there ain't nuttin' wrong with that. If you care about this Heart, as much as you write about? It should be a lotta fun, helping her see who you are. `Cause that's what it's all about.
2007-01-05 06:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will find in life if you are too shy to do certain things, you will never get what you want. Back in school I was shy and asked one of my buddies to ask a girl out for me. Next thing I knew, they were dating. If you want something, go for it. You may be shy, but you have to get over your fear and do it anyway.
2007-01-05 06:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at some point you just have to go for it. If you feel that there is some chemistry between you two then suck it up, swallow your pride, and hope for the best. Had I not done the exact same thing, I would not be married!
2007-01-05 06:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you gotta be brave man! just think it over, and practice on how you gonna ask her out, theres nothing to be shy about, if she likes you, she wont turn you down, whats the worst thing that could happen? you want guys to stop bothering her rite. you gotta act quick. cause when they see you with her. they gonna be jealous. so just ask her out, Be like ""her name" would you be my girlfriend?" yea so just ask her out!
2007-01-05 06:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by B3MR2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋