So, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We're both in law school in VA, but he's from MN. Our relationship is great, and we're very open and honest. In November, he told me he found out his ex (in MN) is dating again, and that he was jealous. These feelings made him wonder if he's over her. Over Winter Break (which he spend in MN), he said he would see her again to see if his feelings were real. I was so worried, but then, during the first week of break, he called and said he was sooo stupid for thinking he might still like her. He said he'd been thinking of me non-stop, missing me, and only wanting to talk about me. I know all this sounds great, but part of me still wonders if he might be cheating on me with his ex. The main reason I'm having these feelings is because I found a letter she sent him in November, in which she said, "Good luck on exams, I miss you, baby." I know he can't control what she sends, but still. Do you think I should be worried?
2007-01-05 06:42:23 · 7 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, he's coming back from break early to spend time with me.
2007-01-05 06:43:32 · update #1
dont be worried. from the sounds of it, if really loves you. if he thinks about you, miss you like crazy then he wouldnt dare cheat on you. so no worries. and plus hes comming back early to see you. so thats good. no worries
2007-01-05 06:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by B3MR2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does NOT sound like he is cheating at all. It sounds like he was misguided for a while but found his way to you. He might have thought he missed her b/c she was familiar but in the long run he didn't b/c he was over her. It seems that he cares for you and wants to be with you. Don't worry :)
2007-01-05 14:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by tiffantre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be getting a side piece for sure
2007-01-05 14:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha.... How would she know he had exams if he wasn't already talking to her?
2007-01-05 14:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by smartypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there might be something going on
2007-01-05 14:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by drg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open with him and ask about his feeling
2007-01-05 14:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to ask ur boy friend. "are u cheating on me???"
2007-01-05 14:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋