Right, well there was this guy when I was 14, nothing happened, though i liked him so much,he ws 18, I think he liked me, he gave me a kind of 'sign' one day I guess.(I'm 27 now by the way) Anyway, he left after a few months and I never saw him again. I found the 'sign' he gave me, and I googled him and there he was, maarried with a kid, but i emailed him a anyway, and i don't know why, except the urge was too much to resist!
what am I doing?
2007-01-05 06:17:42 · 13 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Er hello, thanks for assuming that I want to get with him, I'm in England, he's in America, and we are BOTH married, I'm just confused over my madwoman urge to contact him. God, don't judge everyone else by your own standards.
2007-01-05 06:33:29 · update #1
Well I contacted a guy I knew was married that I used to be in love with. We were best friends back in Highschool and that was 12 years ago, I had been searching for him for a while, as I just wanted to see how he was doing. I am in a long term relationship and I only wanted to talk to him to say Hi how are things going for you. I didn't want to hook up or anything I just missed the times we used to have together. Before I contacted him I told my boyfriend and when I contacted him I e-mailed "Hey do you remember me?" He e-mailed back that he did and that he was looking for me too he wanted to say hello. He is happily married and just had a little girl. We talk about once a week now via e-mail and it's cool. As long as you are not trying to cause problems there is nothing wrong with trying to contact some from the past no matter what your history. Of course this is just my opinion and it is based on my experience.
2007-01-05 07:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural to feel something for someone that is out of reach.
You need to distance yourself from this person and live in the present and not what you think would have been good for you in the past. Whats done is done so move on and enjoy your life, he has obviously moved on already.
2007-01-05 06:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by rickfishherring 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Butter and Maple Syrup. *the real maple syrup i'm getting from Vermont. sparkling fruit and whipped cream powdered sugar raspberry. whipped cream and berries! mmmmmmmm icing sugar unsweetened apple sauce with a sprinkle of cinnamon or if were out strawberries and doubtless slightly whipping cream.
2016-12-01 21:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by picart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you done anything wrong by emailing the guy.....He may been trying to find you too but now that he IS married then maybe you two become good friends but nothing more
2007-01-05 06:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
please dont become an adultress... women like that are disgusting and arent valued by society... find a decent man who you can love who is single... if he emails back then you can do one of three things
1...ignore the email and cut all ties
2... become friends and ONLY friends
3... become a homewrecker
if you are considering option 3 then think about his children....like i said... its fine to be friends... good luck and i hope to hell do do the right thing
2007-01-05 06:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, pretty f'ng stupid on your part. my man once recieved a letter from an old fling and he let me read it and threw it in the garbage. he is the best but anyways i was so p!ssed off at her for doing that. for crying out loud if he wanted to get into contact with you then he would. we haven't heard back from her but if we did i would give that b!tch a call and give her what for.
2007-01-05 06:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You felt all nostaligic, nothing wrong with it bet you hadn't even really thought of him until you found the 'sign'
2007-01-05 06:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its curiousity.
ive done it before of people i used to see alot.
i stopped doing it in the end
2007-01-05 06:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking for trouble.
2007-01-05 06:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you might be a romantic fool
2007-01-05 06:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋