Do you guys have a problem with the men in your life looking at porno, buying pin up magazines, or just watching shows where women are flaunting there goods? I have girlfriends that trip with there men about things like that and even fight about it. I tell them no big deal and they say some day my guy will run off with some other woman because im to nice? WTF I just wonder who feels the way they do or the way I feel? Oh and have a great day?
2007-01-05 06:13:57 · 17 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S I dont feel threatened by them at all but I think my girlfriends are if you ask me.
2007-01-05 06:16:24 · update #1
I know you would understand thanks!
2007-01-05 06:20:00 · update #2
I guess it's something that all guys do,whether I like it or not.
I dont see any harm in it,I just dont get it,what's so interesting in this sh** anyway?!
I'd rather he watch porno than look else where or hock up with some b****.
and OH! you have a great day too :)
2007-01-05 06:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with my husband being who he is as long as it doesn't have an affect on our relationship. Men think about sex every 58 seconds so I would be swimming upstream if I tried at every turn to change who God made him to be. Letting him be himself means that he turns that attention to ME because I allow him the personal freedom to do so. In fact, since I've done this in our relationship his wanting to look at porn or anything else has almost been nonexistent because he has me. This is my second husband and I'm turning 37 soon so life experience has taught me to allow a man to be a man as he allows me to be the woman I am. Have a great day too!
2007-01-05 14:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny S. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to feel jealous and to make it mean the guy thinks you're not good enough.
But, most tell me it has nothing to do with thr woman they are with. I can tell you that most won't give it up. If this really hurts and offends you and he refuses to stop, I think the answer is clear...
you ain't never gonna stop a guy from lookin, but maybe he can get some manners about it instead of bein a horn dog
2007-01-05 14:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I'm going through the same thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like if a guy wants to be hisself then let him do that . I actually believe that insecure women only feel that way, becasue if you already know that your man loves you unconditionally; why would you have to fear a women in a magazine or a video? Let alone any other women?!!!
2007-01-05 14:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by redbone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope....but I would have a problem if the guy wasnt honest about it, but if he is thats a good thing, and I like to watch porn with my boyfriend..its fun...but if he was hiding it and doing it secretly I'd be mad, but otherwise I agree with you, its no big deal..but alot of girls get mad over that kind of thing because they are insecure. If you are secure in your relationship then its not a problem.
2007-01-05 14:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Autumn Blonde ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am with you on this one. The difference between you and your friends is that you are secure in your sexuality and they are not.
Your friends should be the ones preparing for their guy to run off. Men don't like high strung insecure nagging women.
Props to you for having such a level head.
2007-01-05 14:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think my bf should be watching porn when he's with me. It kinda hurts and offends me. I dont have a low self esteem or anything, but it makes me feel as if he's attracted to the women on there than me. But my bf says he doesnt need any porn when he's got sexy me haha lol
2007-01-05 14:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a big problem with it, but if it is all they think about...then I would. That's pretty presumptious of your friends to say that to you. How would they know? I think, if anything, it would be the opposite because you are more trusting of him.
2007-01-05 14:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with that - I'd rather he look at stuff like that than someone nextdoor!! Your friends are clearly insecure and don't trust their men.
2007-01-05 14:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont have a problem with it at all cause i look at it with him i get playboy mags mailed to me in my name and he thinks its cool that they come in my name he tells all his friend i have not been with another female but i want to i like to look at the women in the playboy book as long as your sucure in you relationship then you should have nothing to worry about cause i really dont think you man is going to get a women in a mag me and my husband both get horney looking at it it makes are sex fun some times
2007-01-05 14:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by purple girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋