we are together more than a year and it's my first serious relationships. we broke up once because of a serious scandal, but then I called him back. I felt really bad without him and I was thinking about him all the time! now we are together again. he loves me very much: although his character is too complicated and difficult for me to deal with, I can't live without him. at the same time, I can't say, I LOVE HIM! because i think about other guys and i wish my Mr. Right was different! but i can't leave him. I tried once again, but 10 minutes later i called him back. my friends tell me to look inside myself and find what I really want, but there's nothing inside me that can give me right answer! what to do? if i don't love him, why can't i leave him? if i do, why don't i feel like if i had wings, why don't i think about him all the time and why do i see my life with another man - not with him...????
2007-01-05 06:13:57 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Brooks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You won't leave him because you are scared of being alone. You are going to have to eventually suck it up and leave because if you don't Mr. Right might just pass you by.
2007-01-05 06:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your co-dependent.. Your using him until you find a fab guy such as myself.. Listen. Break up with him and spen a year without a serious relationship.. I mean go on dates, have a fling, buy a vibrator.. Take some time and get to know yourself. I have a buddy in this same situation.. He is or was with a nut but the only way he leaves her is if he has a new girl righ there waiting for him, it's nuts... I did it, I didn't date seriously foralmost two years, it was so much fun I almost said I will never have a steady girl and just when I wasn't looking I mat my wife of ten years.. Let Go!!!! Trust me.
2007-01-05 14:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break up takes a long time to get over and it's really hard at first. Everyone has the urge to get back together right after a breakup, but if you resist that urge and go on with your life you'll get over him eventually and be happy dating other guys.
2007-01-05 14:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's what you do.... Tell him yur pregnant and take a real good look at his back side when hes running for the door. Keep this visual in mind when you never hear from him again and this will be the easiest breakup ever!!! It also sounds like you think WAY too much.
2007-01-05 14:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy and the situation is no good. You will only end up miserable if you continue with this. You should stop dating for a while and think about getting your life on track without a guy.
2007-01-05 14:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by ima_averagejoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't love him, your attracted to him, you are new to the scene i guess. Keep looking for mr right cause you'll find him because its not this guy. Your just attracted to him for who knows how many reasons, do what you do, but you should become less attached with him honestly.
2007-01-05 14:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by flawless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell..time will heal...time...give it some time...if you really feel that leaving him is the right thing to do than do it and it's natural to "miss" him...don't go back to him just because you "miss" him...write down what you like and dislike about him and put your thoughts on paper then decide
2007-01-05 14:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by docKnowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with your friends... the foundation to managing a happy and successful life is to get to know yourself well.
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2007-01-05 14:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy, then break up with your current one. then you can latch on to the new guy.
2007-01-05 14:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋