We're unofficially seeing each other.....how can I tell if he still likes me and wants to pursue a proper relationship and also how can I tell if he wants me for just sex?!!
2007-01-05 06:11:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is, he'll tell me he misses me only when I say it first, as for the mushy stuff, we've never said stuff like "thinking bout you" to each other!
2007-01-05 06:20:04 · update #1
What does it mean unofficially seeing each other? You either are or not.
You need to talk to him and find out what he expects and wants. If he's really evasive, he probably is just in it for sex. If you're okay with that, fine, but if not, move on.
2007-01-05 06:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person always makes it a point to see you no matter where or when. And if you see each other every chance you get. After a while the sex shouldn't be the only reason for seeing each other. If he actually takes you out on dates. If he's not embarrassed to bring you around his friends.But if you are there at his becon call willing to give it up for a 3:00am booty call then that's all you'll be to him. Just make sure you always leave him wanting more. Trust me I'm speaking from experience.
2007-01-05 06:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judge by the time it takes to reply to your calls or E-Mails. Keep in mind work schedules and what not. Same day is a good thing, next week is a bad thing. If it's a long distance thing, I don't think sex is an issue. Maybe loyalty is if he's the kind of guy who only wants sex.
2007-01-05 06:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to tell! I like this guy and we are a long distance thing to and I am not too sure if he just wants me for sex or really does care, so I guess we will both find out on our own, that is a really hard question for alot of people to answer.
2007-01-05 06:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by always_confused15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there married cpl here
we'd like to say that we use to have the exact same probelm well we sort of stil do ( i live n ga part time to work and she lives in tn bc of her school) we started talking in august 2006 starting online dating in september of 2006 and got married in december 2006
we talked everyday on the phone on the pc and some thru mail but there isnt one day that weve missed talking to eachother if he wants to pursue a proper realtionship with u then u will honestly feel it in ur heart bc we did and no offense hun but if hes just after sex then either of u wont want to wait til the next time u chat
i (female) here use to think that the man im married to me all he was after was sex or just stringing me along untill i felt in my heart he wasnt
yes it hurts i no when its long distance bc u cant go over there and see whats really going on but give it time if hes what u want and your what he wants then time wil tell
good luck to ya
2007-01-05 06:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have actually met him in person several times, there is no way to know what he wants or expects of you? Many times you do get an idea by the things guys talk about on line. I mean if it is sexual in content.
2007-01-05 06:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him on the phone regularly. After getting to know him with great confidence, you can set to meet him in person. Be careful not to meet him in an isolated place, don't meet with a guy in a hotel.
2007-01-05 06:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are long distance then why would he only want you for sex? He knows apparentlyl he can't just GET it because you aren't really around. I don't think its that!
2007-01-05 06:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some hints that u would like to be in relationship with him....if he ignores them but still will stay close to u that means that he wants u just for sex
2007-01-05 06:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you guys spent any intimate times together? Does he constatnly tell you he misses you and can't stop thinking of you and all that mushy stuff?
2007-01-05 06:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋