How do I get this out in the open on the first date, I don't like wasting time......
2007-01-05 06:08:29 · 20 answers · asked by shutup4774 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be blunt.. let him know what you enjoy, then if they dont agree you wont have to worry if they do agree with this type of action. go with it, it could prove to be fun and interesting too. just be open and honest about what you enjoy..
2007-01-05 06:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be right up front with it. When he asks you out, tell him yes: But, we need to talk about the date first. The tell him that you're physically, or emotionally interested in him. And that you have some sexual fetishes you really like. And would he be willing to help you with them. If you're doing this on the phone, I'm pretty sure he'll only have one hand on the phone. Guess where his other one will be. Do yourself a favor and get some Japanese Silk Bondage ropes. They're not that expensive, and they're good.
2007-01-05 06:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a fantasy made true by my fiance` (then boyfriend). He tied me to the bed with my arms and legs spread out. I was fully clothed but he slowly tore my clothes from my body until I was lying there fully naked. What happened next is R rated That is still my fantasy, It has only happened once but i want it to happen again.
2016-03-14 01:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to be TIED UP NAKED on ur 1st date :
Step 1 : Print out of ur inkjet printers some thing like this "Kohinoor diamond stolen today, 2000000000 billion dollars reward to the finder." in BOLD letters.
Step 2 : Cut it out and paste it on a newspaper's forntpage.
Step 3 : Place the newspaper in such a way that ur boyfriend will notice and see it.
Step 4 : Remove, throw away or clean up anything like ropes, blankets, clothes etc etc. such things from the room where u r going to bring in ur date.
Step 5 : Call ur boyfriend inside and tell him that u have stolen the KOhinoor diamond, and u are not going to sell or exchange it with anyone,.....tell him that u r going to GIFT it to ur Mum.
Then Behold........
Your Dream is about to be fulfilled........
As soon as ur boyfriend sees the Newspaper heading and hear ur statements.......
He will definitly.....STRIP OFF all ur clothes from u and will TIE U UP with them.......................before he reach for his cell phone to claim the reward.....
U WILL BE DEFINITLY TIED UP NAKED......and that also on ur very first date.
2007-01-05 06:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by naafraat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try dating sites that specilize in fetishes.
I often wish I could move into the sexual side of the discussion on the first date but I have found that foreplay involves a lot more than arousal.
Everyone likes sex but not everyone is comfortable talking about what they like about sex. I think that we have to go through the motions to make each other feel comfortable about opening up and willing to hear a date's preferences.
Although I consider myself very open sexually, I think I might be taken aback by a woman who asks me to tie her up shortly after we've met. I'm not saying I wouldn't do it, but I wouldn't be expecting to hear it.
2007-01-05 06:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by JoeH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be careful dear, you are playing with fire here. Obviously you have been lucky and haven't run into a "bad apple" yet. You could very easily get more than you bargained for here darling. Such activity encourages someone to do things that they might not have done otherwise, and you may find someone who is into the pain game and worse. You could come out of it mentally wounded not to speak of physically damaged or worse. Oh, I beg you darling, be careful, I have been married to two women who were raped and abused, and I know the hell they experienced, and I know how it ruined my life, and I had nothing to do with it. Please baby, Please!! G
2007-01-05 06:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by hog rock 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
super! Just say you're into kinky things and if the guy isnt tell him it wont work. It's all a numbers game. That is hot by the way.
2007-01-05 06:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Handsome Devil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put that out in the open like that????? If someone told me that on the first date, i would not see them anymore. Tell the person when you guys are gonna do "it" not on the first date, its a bad first impression.
2007-01-05 06:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put an ad on Craigslist, "filhty s l u t in a hurry - likes to be tied up on first date, will f*ck anything in pants. Write back so I can make you feel special."
There ya go.
2007-01-05 06:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
tell him straight up start joking about sex then fill him out about it dont leave no knots untied . ps u better make sure u know him well enough first to trust that kind of situation good luck
2007-01-05 06:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by kyfixedit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋