2007-01-05 06:06:07 · 15 answers · asked by dontstandoncorners 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why ask a Question when you your self ARE answering the question...."I DON'T TRUST HER CAUSE OF HER SH*TY PAST".
2007-01-05 06:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rutul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married man here
heres a few questions u should ask urseld bc my current wife now use to be sort of the same thing but of course she's only been with 5 ppl counting me 6 but anyway ask urself these questions bc i did and shes not gone back to it?
1 has she cheated on you in the 6 months or does she show shes changed they say man u cant teach an old dog new tricks well i have to agree with that to an exist but my wife changed and she use to always look for the next so if ur girlfriend of 6 months wants to get married by all means go for it but just make sure shes not doing something that u will ask where did i get that from a year day the road
good luck to ya
2007-01-05 14:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! Six monts is way too early to choose someone to be your wife.
I am not saying that because she has made big mistakes in the past that she is not a good person now. But, there are probably personality issues that she is still carrying around that caused her to have such a crazy past.
You need to make sure your wife is emotionally stable, financially responsible, and mature enough to give and earn respect.
Do not let her manipulate you on what is the most important decision of your life.
2007-01-05 14:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont trust her enough to marry her then don't do it, there is no since in getting married if you don't trust someone because it wouldn't work out and if it did you would be fighting your whole life. IT'S NO FUN!
2007-01-05 14:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by always_confused15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe wait until you guys have been together longer. I don't think that waiting until you've been together for a year or two is bad. If she is insistant that it has to be now I would be suspicious of why she wants to marry so quick.
2007-01-05 14:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would she want 2 get married after 6 months is she mad if you have any doubts at all don't do it
2007-01-05 14:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always get engaged and then set the wedding for a year from now. But if you don't trust her, I wouldn't even do that.
2007-01-05 14:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lowa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think past doesnt matter so much in a relation where ture love exits.If she has come over her past and wants to settle her life with you then you should go ahed with it
2007-01-05 14:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it more time, its only 6 months, thats nothing! So give it time & see if she's changed from her s*h*i*t*y past, if she has & u love her, then do it. If not, then find ur self a chick w/no crappy past!
2007-01-05 14:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by lndsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about pasts are that they are in the past. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is a mystery and today is today. Don't look and judge her for for what she has done in her past. You learn and grow from your mistakes and that's all you can do in life is grow and learn.
2007-01-05 14:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by flowerintherain02 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋