2007-01-05 05:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
No don't listen to that person. You don't have to drink to be more talkitive. Will unless you want to, but you don't have to get drunk. Coming from a shy person believe me it can be hard. However you can get over this not talking in groups things. First of all you got to relax and clam down. It's not totally a bad thing that you don't like to be so chatty to a group. You don't have to be and no one can make you. Do whatever you feel comfortable with. When it comes to trying to be more outgoing or talking answer questions with more than a yes or no asnwer. It seems hard, but once you just let what you have to say out then you'll feel more confident. Laughing, smiling, relaxing (sitting, leaning, etc) helps too and peoples might not care about the not talking so much. If comments are said then don't worry. Not everyone has to be the "life of the party" and hey if your able to help friends or cheer people up does a chatty group really mater? (you'll be the one in the end friends and family will come to for comfort)... Ok it's nice to be in convos yes thats true. Maybe you could stick closer to the ones you feel comfortable being chatty and joking with and then you'll be able to talk better with the others. Good luck and hang in there.
2007-01-05 06:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very self conscious and are afraid what people will think if you say something inappropriate.
Best you listen first and you find you have many better ideas and others. Then simply express yourself and you find others are listening attentively. Once you gain some confidence you'll be OK from then on. JUST DO IT.
2007-01-05 13:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by Prav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not aggressive and outgoing by nature, it's best not to say too much in groups. This could be seen as a challenge by some group members, unless you say the things they want to hear, then you would be socially accepted. Be careful, it's not always friendly out there. Be discrete in what you want to say.
2007-01-05 05:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur shy like most people i am shy as well even in front of my family but u need to try if u r still at skool then try answering qusetions to ur teacher evn if ur not sure as long as u tried just try small things to begin with then u won't be shy anymore
remember don't be afraid i mean u r only human u r the same as everyone else it doesn't matter if u don't no
2007-01-05 05:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY ONE OPTION FOR U THAT IS TOLD TO ME BY MY TEACHER THAT U SHOULD TALK WITH THE MIRROR FOR 5-10 MIN IN ENGLISH DAILY THIS WILL IMPROVE U R PROBLEM
2007-01-05 17:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by rohit sachdeva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not drunk enough to stop worrying about other people's opinion of you. So finish that 6 pack and join the conversation.
2007-01-05 05:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by my alias 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just share your opinion and be yourself!!!
That has always worked for me! (:
2007-01-05 06:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by poppiehoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋