My ex asked me to stay the night at the end ov november. He told me he missed me, and stuff happened. Not meaning to be gross, but he made me bleed cuz he was rough. Now he thinks he hurt me badly and wont talk to me out of guilt/embarresment,etc.. What should I do?
2007-01-05 05:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by blearghll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NoAnswers had a good answer.... heh
Well I think maybe he just might have wanted it for then.. you know he got the need and called you.... depends on his type. I dont know him so I can´t juge... If you´re sure he really wanted you and he really felt bad then talk to him and tell him how you feel! How do you feel? you never said that and I cant give much help here...
If you want him then show up at his place and do the same, tell him you miss him, forgive him for the bleeding.... and tell him how badly you want him...
2007-01-05 06:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just throwing in my two cents worth- I know it's personal and a wee bit embarrassing, but it's only in order to help you feel better and good about yourself that I wish to offer you this piece of advice.
From where I stand, so long as the understanding between the two of you has not be shaken, if not really shattered, and if you don't really suppose that your sensibilities have been deeply wounded, you would do jolly well to ease him out of his guilty conscience.
To put it simply, if both of you could just put the little boob behind you and make like nothing majorly serious has happened, you would be making the situation seem a lot less awkward.
Pondering about it over and over or making him stew in his own juices will only make matters worse for you thereby straining the relationship, of whatever kind, between you.
As they say, let bygones be bygones, offer him a word or two of comfort, if need be, and get on with it!
Good luck!
2007-01-05 13:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by SK22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he mean to be rough??? Did you tell him he was too rough??? Communication is always important in ANY relationship, even with an ex. If it wasn't done on purpose to hurt you then be the bigger person and call him yourself and let him know that it is ok. And as always with any partner, don't forget to use protection!!!
2007-01-05 13:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by ev1500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sure is guilt and embarrassment he feels or he just wanted a quick lay think about it
2007-01-05 13:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u just got played! i bet hes telling all his frendz that he got to hit it and he even made you bleed! he'll call you back when hes feeling a lil horny again, so make sure u learn ur lesson. ur being used!
2007-01-05 13:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did it make your feel, if good than
Tell him via email/letter as passionately as you can (in detail)
That's if he is worth the trip
2007-01-05 13:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a jerk all he wanted was to have sex with you he wasnt interested at all from he told you to spend the night with him that what he got up his sleeve.
2007-01-05 13:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by diana e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just a booty call for him. Move on you don't need him
2007-01-05 13:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try to talk to him and tell him that you are okay......
2007-01-05 13:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by dkcaywood2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you believe him? hahahahaha............Excuses, excuses, he just wanted some for that nite!
2007-01-05 13:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Chikana24/7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋