What if a man puts you through the tenth level of hell for months and mopnoths. . .you still love this person. . .you deserve better. . .but, when you try and explain it to him that you just can't take anymore he says he's doing everything he's doing "for you". . .
If you try to walk away he says"you're all set" and cons you back into the conversation of which he is on top of or else. . ."you're all set". . .
What the h e l l ???
2007-01-05 05:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get the old baseball bat out, go over and tell him "WE ARE DONE!"
When when he opens his mouth, just swing in his general direction and be done with it....
Or
Be the lady that you are and just tell him your done being abused and walked on and to enjoy the view as you walk away, this is the last time he'll see your a s s at all!
2007-01-05 11:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i am in the same boat. my man does the same thing. i have been through hell and still there. i feel for you honey,but if you have some one take you in or you havea place to go get OUT! you do deserve better i know i deserve better but i do it only for my kids. had it not been for the trouble we are going through i don't think we would have any trouble getting along.honey just get out if you have some where to go.
2007-01-05 05:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by ANGELA T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this person is controlling you with his words and YOU are allowing him to do so ... if you want out of this just walk away and say hey your rite i am all set and so are you so see ya and dont look back. you will get over the love part but if he is this controlling now it will only get worse as time goes on
2007-01-05 05:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by momoftwobestkids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a manipulator and you have been under his spell, take charge of your life and move on.
Manipulators hate for someone to take back control and refuse to talk to them. But it is what works. I know.
Also, there are lots of books on the subject and you could benefit from reading up on the topic of manipulators.
Flat out, DO NOT HAVE EVEN ONE MORE CONVERSATION WITH HIM, he will only wiggle himself back in.
2007-01-05 05:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. Get out of it. He needs to figure himself out before he has any sort of relationship. He shouldn't do anything 'for you' he should do it for himself. If he's not doing it for himself then it is superficial. And you are being manipulated in the process.
2007-01-05 05:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him. You're a pretty girl. You can find better that will treat you waay better. Don't let this guy get the best of you.
2007-01-05 05:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are all set when you leave him
he is an expert in the art of manipulation and you need to get out from under his grip
2007-01-05 05:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM at all expenses , you dont deserve to be in a relationship like this.... why would you wanna do that to yourself? Huge waste of time in my opinion.
2007-01-05 06:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the beauty of love, hmmm.
Talk it trough with your friends, listen to their advice - and break up if it remains abusive.
Love is a two-way thing.
2007-01-05 05:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get that either.
2007-01-05 05:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋