my bf loves me and thinks i am the best thing to ever happen in his life. i had this friend last year. we both liked each other but i wasn't ready for a relationship. he ignored me for two months. finally talked to me about how he loves this girl and needs advice. so i stopped talking to him for two months. finally we are talking normally again and he is not acting like a jerk anymore. but i think i might still love him. in my heart i just feel like he might be my true love. but he doesn't look great and he couldn't give me the stable life i want or impresses my parents. my bf is the star jock on like tons of sports teams and still dose good in school. he is religious but a different religion then me. he plans on being a teacher. i want to be a teacher too so i mean we are perfect for each other. i can't help thinking the other guy is my true love but i don't know if he even feels that strong for me. i do love my bf alot and i couldn't hurt him.
2007-01-05 05:31:32 · 10 answers · asked by punk girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We always want what we can't have.......The boy only wants you to pull away from what you have. If you have a good thing going KEEP IT!!!!! Stay faithful, true blue and life will be good. Things will happen as they happen but don't allow some other guy or girl come between you and your good thing.......You stay TRUE!
2007-01-05 05:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here i go: 1-if you really thought or believed that this other guy is your true love, it wouldnt matter to you that he doesnt look great and that he can't give you a stable life or impress your parents and such other things. sounds to me like you do have some feelings left for him but i dont think its love. 2-you say you love your boyfriend, and he sounds like he has great qualities, but the most important thing is that you love him and he loves you back the same way. 3- keep in mind that even though looks and other superficial stuff dont matter, you seem to be coming up with these supercifial reasons why this other guy wouldnt be good enough. i think these reasons are more like excuses to tell yourself that you shouldnt be with him, when the real reason why you shouldnt is because you know you wont have with him the same kind of relationship you have with your boyfriend. it'd be like trading something great for something 'ok'. why does it still seem like true love? because it sounds movie like. he went away emotionally, he came back, your supposed to be together. it dosnt work like that, not always. you said it yourself: it doesnt seem that this other guy would have the same feelings for you as you say you do for him. why go there? you already know what would happen, that its not a good idea. i guess theres nothing more left to say than: there are probably going to be more guys coming back into your life while your busy forming a relationship (with your boyfriend) and just because at some point you had feelings for them, doesnt mean that you have to consider them potential boyfriends again. that would really ruin your chances at a long lasting amazing relationship.
2007-01-05 05:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never live your life to impress others or your parents. You need to truly decide what you want in life. A stable life with someone u love, or with someone you love but no idea where you will be next. If you are having these issues than you must not be IN LOVE with your current bf. You should really break that off, especially until u decide whats best for u. Good luck, but decide soon or you will hurt both of them.
2007-01-05 05:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by bdgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might just be bored with your bf and the security you have there, and just want to try out this weirdo friend of yours who you aren't even really good friends with. I suggest you leave that guy alone, he sounds like a hopeless fling, fantasy, or something. Your bf sounds like a better guy, then again HS relationships never last more than 6 years anyways, so I guess whichever route you take it wont really matter.....Good Luck!
2007-01-05 05:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're still in highschool then don't worry, it's too early to find a true love.
I'm not religious but I do know some people that have had a conflict in religion because theirs were different that their spouses. Unless you or your boyfriend plan to convert and have the same religion, be careful... it could lead to bad things
2007-01-05 05:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by smooshcrickets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are conflicted with your feelings for both these guys and you should spend some time with both of them to get to know each one better and to see where your heart is. but remember that when you do make your decision who have to consider the ohter guy being hurt.
2007-01-05 05:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kayesha H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Than stay with the bf and your friend had his chance. Thats what happened to me last summer.
2007-01-05 05:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to ur heart
think abt ur bf if u leave him wat wud be his state
& anyway u love him from a long time & u said ur frend is not tht gr8 either
so get set & go along wwith ur bf & tell urself the other guy is a jerk & i sure wudnt wanna b wid a jerk
2007-01-05 05:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by nikita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be confused. Sometimes...no matter how much we love someone...they still bore us a little! You'll decide.
2007-01-05 05:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the question?
2007-01-05 05:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋