2007-01-05 05:29:59 · 19 answers · asked by bigboybob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what type of therapist???
It might be that you feel really close to her because she helps you out and understands you in a way that no one else can. It may not be love but a close connection. You may feel safe and like you are able to be yourself around her.
2007-01-05 05:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's possible to love someone that has helped you. But the closeness you feel isn't the type of love that is romantic, it is likely just affection for this person. It's natural. I would tell your therapist about this and ask if you shouldn't start seeing someone else. You will be unable to make progress in your treatment if you have these feelings in the way. Good Luck
2007-01-05 05:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by ima_averagejoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to begin by saying that a relation with your therapist is impossible; he/she would at the very least receive a severe reprimande if he/she would get involved with you - it's highly unethical, since he/she is in a position of power over you.
Beyond that, maybe that's why you feel that way - attraction to someone that is 'safe' - you won't ever be able to get close to him/her.
And you've probably already shared some pretty deep thoughts, it creates a kind of bond.
To answer your question: I'd say it's obviously possible, since you're experiencing it. (Just don't expect it to be answered, but you can probably just come out with it, it will probably make you feel better and defuse any tense you might have build up.)
2007-01-05 05:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that being in love is part of a complete package. If you are not sexually attracted to her then I believe you are not in love. I think you may have strong feelings for her. In the sense that you tell her your thoughts, secrets hopes & aspirations...you are naturally very close to your therapist. I'm sure you even feel greatful to her. But don't confuse those thoughts with love because that could get tricky/dangerous.
2007-01-05 05:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gained trust and a bond with your therapist. She has helped you through your mental troubles, therefore you have an affection to her. I think you are confusing different types of affection, speak to your therapist about it, she has helped you with other things on your life.
Remember, she is a professional that helps people.
2007-01-05 05:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a conversation for your therapist. Let her know. She will either suggest a new therapist or she will help you better understand your feelings towards her.
2007-01-05 05:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lilbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confusing yourself. A therapist is a person you open up to and have to trust, unconditionally. This could lead to feelings of closeness, but you have to remove yourself from the situation a bit and look at it for what it is......therapy, not a dating.
2007-01-05 05:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anything is possible. You have probably fallen "in love" with her personality, not really her. If you aren't attracted to her, then you're not really in love with her. You are just feeling that way because she helps you & that's classic "hero" syndrome.
2007-01-05 05:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by leecarh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love with your therapist so relax. They are comforting to you which is something you are looking for and in turn you feel as if you are falling for them
2007-01-05 05:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, no, for sure no longer; being sexually attracted to somebody and taking section in intercourse with them does no longer mean that any one will fall in love. Do you think of adult adult males fall in love with hookers?
2016-11-26 21:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋