Also how do you know if they are lying?
2007-01-05 05:25:43 · 17 answers · asked by Gonzalo P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a test yourself, and ask your date to have the same test as well to accompany you. I don't he would mind if you take the test as well.
2007-01-05 05:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-29 16:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable enough to have sex with someone, you should be comfortable enough to talk about sex--especially safe sex. It is very important to know your partner's sexual history, and how will you if you don't ask. Yes, some people may lie about that, but be responsible for yourself and ALWAYS practice safe sex. Although it is not 100% effective, use protection, and more importantly, be tested regularly. Then you won't have to worry about being lied to, and you'll have an active role in your own fate.
2007-01-05 05:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by "Princess" Laya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course. U can tell if they are good at it then u have a problem. But u can usually tell just by the way there eyes shift a different way and there not looking at u. Or if they blush when u ask.
2007-01-05 05:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. One would be a fool to not ask, even for fear that it will offend the guy/girl. Of course, there's every possibility that the partner will lie, but it is always good to ask.
2007-01-05 05:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by randman21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not until we are thinking of becoming intimate. Then I ask if they have ever been tested. If so, when? If you have doubts, ask to see the paper that says they are negative. If they say they have never been tested, then don't have sex with them. Tell them you have been tested (if you have) and tell them what a great peace of mind it is.
2007-01-05 05:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes i do, And if they don't answer me then they might be hiding something. and if you really wanna know, tell the person, before you guys become sexually active, to get tested, because you will not lower your standards, and ruin your future....
and if he rejects dump him, and if he really cares about you, then they will get the tests done to show you that they will take the initiative to be with you...
Good luck
2007-01-05 05:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not ask it in that way. i would probably say something like, " I am clean and would like to stay that way so lets talk about you" or something. and yes they do lie, so always use precaution till you really get to know someone. if they don't want to talk about this subject,,,,run like the wind!! good luck to ya
2007-01-05 05:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ask for a medical check up, and i do a background check, and i ask them to put a credit card on file!
2007-01-05 05:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's something you really need to know. If you don't ask, && they never tell, then you could end up with a really bad problem.
2007-01-05 05:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋