.......i had my first ever serious relationship with this guy...after some time, i felt numb and asked him to cool off..after a week of no communication, i made up my mind, i really love him, the problem is....just when im ready to love him whole heartedly,i found out that...he has another girl....:(
2007-01-05 05:25:23 · 6 answers · asked by poster girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What exactly do you mean when you said that you asked him to "cool off"? Did you have any contact w/ him at all? If he thought that you dumped him, then he went on with his life, that's it. He's not cheating on you if you told him to cool off. Apparently he's still playing the field & is not ready for that kind of commitment.
2007-01-05 05:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by leecarh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband when I was 15. We have been through alot in the last 13 years. We have both changed and matured. I love him dearly and he loves me, but we have both stepped out of the marriage at one time or another. The best advice I can give is honest open communication. We were about to make a choice together to save our marriaage a few years ago when the cheating accured. It has not been an easy road, but we are alot stronger for it now. It forced us to look at the problems we had been ingoring in our relationship and really decide what to do. Trust is the hardest thing to get back. But is you are both commited and decided to try again I ca tell you it does come back with time and lots of hard work. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-05 05:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by ms_cold_ember 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just To Let You Know He Is Not Cheating On you You Called It off he agree and you both should have moved on...
Fact is you didnt...he did...i think he moved on too fast...yu know getting another girl right after finishing wif one...but technically it is your fault..
You called It Off...You Said Its Done...
You Decided to end the run and he agreed...the fact that you want him back is almost valid but hey...who knows maybe that girl is just a way to get you jealous and when he hers you still lik him hell come running backk
Things Happen
2007-01-05 05:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by tickingclocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My very first boyfriend that I ever had cheated on me. I took him back. He did it again. I took him back. This happened over and over. I don't know what happened, but one day, it was like a switch went off in my brain. It said, 'I don't have to take this, and I won't.' And I let it go. Let him go, let the pain go, let the relationship go. And now I know what NOT to do if it ever happens again. I'm not saying that people can't be sorry and never do it again, but you have to listen to your gut.
2007-01-05 05:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all thats good you found out before it got serious. You desire more than that you are a Queen and you desire to be treated like a Queen. Also your King will find you their is someone out there for every one. It takes time be patient.
2007-01-05 05:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why feeling down this guy may always talking to this girl when he was talking to you. if he really interested to be with you he couldnt have move so fast with another girl i think he was talking to you when he was talking to her .so please be strong i understand you love him but if he love you he will come back.if him space but if he dont come back back keep on eye open and expect the unexpected.
2007-01-05 05:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by diana e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋