im 14 and in the 9th grade and shes 11 and in the 5th grade. we both like each other i just want to know if it will work out or not. plz help.
2007-01-05 04:52:52 · 9 answers · asked by Sk8ForLifeOrDieTrying 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a pretty big, I mean big chance this will not work out. She is still in elementary school. You are in high school. Even if the both of you go to the same school, she is out of your league. When a girl is that young, she likes any boy that is pretty much a boy. She doesn't know how to look for quality. Not saying you lack quality, it’s just that as a girl that young, she really doesn't know what she likes. Your 14 so chances are there will come 15, 16 year olds that will catch your eye sooner or later. If you really like this girl, just keep it on a friendship level. Show her that you care for her in an older sibling type manner. You never know but in 7 or 8 years from now sparks might really fly between you two. I hope this helps!!
2007-01-05 05:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean right now no it won't work out.
When she is 18 you'll be 21.
It might work out then but 11 is to young for a girl to be having a real boyfriend.
There's no reason why you can't be friends though.
At some point between now and when she turns 18 she'll be old enough to start dating. That's up to her parents. That's when the time is right to make your move.
When she's a freshman you'll be a senior so that's really the only chance you two have at making it work. She should start talking to her parents now about letting her date when she's in high school. Just school dances and things at first so her parents don't have to worry too much. She shouldn't mention that she already has the boyfriend picked out.
2007-01-05 05:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love in the 9th grade, but 11 years old, I don't think so, she's just learning to take her emotions out for a test drive and is years away from knowing what she wants, just be friends..
2007-01-05 04:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang on for a while a high schooler with an elemenry st udent doesn't look so good wait until she is at least in the seventh grade.
2007-01-05 04:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by MUSIC IS BASICALLY MY LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years may seem like somthing now, but that age difference is nothing. If you like her, I think you should go for it. The only difficulties might come when you're 16 and she can't drive yet, or you're 18 and she's not legal yet, or you're 21 and she can't have a drink. But for now I think you two will be fine.
2007-01-05 05:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her you have the rest of your life
2007-01-05 04:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Aphrodite♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not illegal to try and see how will it go.... but still your young....... yet she is a bit too young
but hey... its you life
2007-01-05 04:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Fisherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it won't work. Grow up.
2007-01-05 04:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dacious P.I. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she is to young fro you thats gross
2007-01-05 04:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by taken4732 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋