I am a 14 year old guy and have been friends with this girl who is my age since the first grade. In third grade, i moved and i came back in 9th grade. she was so happy and so was i. she wouldn't leave my side ever. But then, her boyfriend started to interfere with our friendship and now we don't talk to each other really. When i moved back i sort of had feelings for her, i wanted to be her boyfriend. Now, she's barely even my friend. I've been wanting to fix this, but i don't know how. Anyway, today, her and her boyfriend, well, something happened, i don't know what, but they could break up any minute now. If this happens, i would love to tell her my true feelings, i've been waiting for this to happen since i moved back. but now that we aren't really talking to each other because of her boyfriend, i'm afraid it's too late. what should i do if they break up or don't end up breaking up?
2007-01-05 04:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by tigert92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her know somehow, call, email whatever... that u really care about her..and that if her boyfriend doesn't treat her well, he doesnt' deserve her, and ur willing to take the chance to show her that u would do ur best to be a great boyfriend to her. no matter what, that u care for her and want her to be happy.. that way, she knows that u are coming from a boyfriend point of view so ur not just "pretending" to be a good friend. u truly do want her to be happy, and think that u can be happy together. let her know that, and don't make her do anything, but be there for her. if she chooses to stay distant, u must respect that. good luck~
2007-01-05 04:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG if you really like her and they break up you should totaly tell her how you feel. I mean if you and her were friends for that long it would be a great thing becuase you two know eachother. Even if they dont break up you should tell her or she might never know how you feel about you. I mean she was excited when you moved back. I bet she might of had feelings for you. Just tell her and then she will know how you feel about her. Everything will go fine i have confidents in you and if it doesnt that means she wasn't the one for you but i have a feeling that it will go good just be confident and dont freak out when you see her cuz then she might thing you have a problem when your around her but anyways just tell her.
2007-01-05 12:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way, you should try and hang out with her. You were her friend first. Her boyfriend must be really insecure if he can't handle the two of you hanging out. Furthermore, you're both so young...it's not like her relationship with this guy is going to last. I would just take things slow...the older you are when you two get together, the better chance you'll have of creating something that lasts. Good luck!
2007-01-05 12:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't move in to soon. But first repair your friendship be there for her as a friend again.Ten to one the reasonyou and her are not friends is because he was jealous. So go to her be her friend threw this break up. Then aventually tell her about your feelings be honest.But don't go there and bash the ex, because if they would some how get back together she might go back to not talking to you. If you care about her you would rather be her friend that not her friend at all.
2007-01-05 12:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell her how you feel if they break up right off. just be there for her yall stopped talking becasue of her bf so now yall can go back to talking to each other . she seems to feel the same way for you things will work out for the best
2007-01-05 12:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you wait a little bit longer? I can imagine, that it is very hard for you to see her together with her boyfriend. Whether you wait, or you write a nice letter and tel her about your feelings. At least you will see her reaction. Love is sometime painful...
2007-01-05 12:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by seda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well........................i really dont know but i dont think that you should say it as soon as she brakes up with him i say wait a while if you really like her than go for it and if you dont really like her that well yt than i say wait a while because if you dont really like her then you will ask her and she will say yes and then about three weeks later you guys would brake up and then you would'nt want to be boyfreind and freind or just freinds so i say that you wait a week or so and then if you are really sure that things are going to work for a while than ask her well......good luck
2007-01-05 12:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by W.I.C.K.E.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy - you are very yonge ..but anyway .If this girl really like you you must give her space ,don't jump on her or something .Be her friend ,listen to her ,and then see what happend When she is ready -she will open up ,but you have to give it time and space..Only then ,she can open up and trust you ....
2007-01-05 12:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by niceandcute_777 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they do break up talk to her and hang out somemore and when you feel like you can ask her out then go ahead and do it. dont wait. she might find someone and you will lose your chance.
2007-01-05 12:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Swoop in for the kill when she's vulnerable.
2007-01-05 12:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋