helping someone deal with a death of a son?

Answer 1

I lost my son many years ago. People said some really stupid things. I have learned over the years, just being there, holding a hand or hugging someone helps. Send a card every now and then, just a 'thinking of you card'. It doesn't need to say much, it just shows them that you remember. That's all we want. Someone to remember our loss. I will often give one white rose to the mom, not necessarily at the time of the death, but maybe prior to a birthday/holiday, etc. Once again, letting her know her baby is not forgotten. People do say silly things, but just being there, being a good friend who remembers is most important.

Answer 2

All children died before age of accountancy will be saved to
Heaven through redemption of Jesus Christ. Be sure she is a true Christian and on way to Heaven, then she will see her son in joyful reunion above.

In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
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Answer 3

Be there to give whatever kind of support they need and eventually help them honor their son in some special way. Try to help them focus on the joy he brought them when he was alive. My sympathy and prayers are with you both.

Answer 4

Just remain by their side and be there for anything they need. I'm so sorry.

Answer 5

us be there for them... and MAKE SURE THEY KNOW THAT.....
Dont keep sayin IT WILL BE OK....lol but yeah hope that helped!