A woman at work (not from my office but in the same building) got in the lift with me the other week, and started talking about how the weather was really bad and what a horrible way to start the weekend with it being so foul and wet etc,I sort of said 'yeh, not very nice etc' and that was that. The lift doors opened and we said goodnight she went off for her bus and i got the tube.
Do you think she fancies me and she was really saying ''i like you, i've got nothing to do this weekend, why don't you ask me out''? Or am I reading too much into such a brief encounter?
I've passed her a few times in the corridor and she always smiles and says 'hello', but then she is a friendly person and maybe does that with everyone without thinking.
What do people think? She is very nice, (but not so nice as to be out of my league - I know my limits) and I'd be well made up if she really did fancy me!
2007-01-05
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Foxhound
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
If you like her then just ask her out. If you do it tastefully and she says no, it wont feel so bad. If you steam in with a come to my flat and take your clothes off it may not work out.
I spent 6 months smiling at a woman wondering if she liked me cos she smiled back and said hello. We've been together 6 years next month.
Just do it, do it now and do it properly.
2007-01-05 04:07:16
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answered by Missing Link 3
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She might do, but it is hard to tell with just a couple of brief encounters. She may have been trying to make conversation.
Get to know her a bit better first. See if you can chat to her a bit more. Then maybe you will be able to gauge her reactions more.
2007-01-05 14:05:12
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answered by The Global Geezer 7
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There is no problem to ask her out because she is not in your office and you`ll not feel bed everytime you see her if she do not go out with you. You don`t see her so often so go ahead and try. You may also ask some of her friends or coleagues if she likes you but maybe that`s more ambarassing then just ask her
2007-01-05 12:06:27
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answered by kras_4o 2
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Cant say either way but next time you see here engage positively in conversation and if she is free ask her out for a drink or meal.Good Luck
2007-01-05 12:03:22
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answered by SAMMY 3
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When you next see her in the elevaitor or in the hallway ask her if she want's to join you for brunch or coffee.Don't glaire at her but give her alittle eye contact aswell.You can normally tell if there interested in you if they look back in the same fashion.the eyes,gateway to the soul.Just don't glaire,Body language is over 70% of attracting someone.So use more than just words.
2007-01-05 12:30:42
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answered by prettypete 2
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At that time she was making small talk but since she is always
nice to you and smiles at you , ask her out to dinner or a movie.
It is the only real way to find out.
2007-01-05 12:00:43
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answered by StarShine G 7
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Try getting to know her a bit more...imagin how embarrassing asking her out would be if she turned round and said she's already taken :o
Maybe ask your collegues if they know anything about her...
Good luck :)
2007-01-05 12:47:54
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answered by kaykay 3
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Sounds like she was just being friendly but that doesn't mean you can't ask her out, even friendly girls go on dates, if you like her go for it, what's the worse that can happen?
2007-01-05 12:01:21
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answered by Anonymous
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She was probably just making conversation other than standing in silence. But maybe she does like you. If you like her you should ask her out.
2007-01-05 12:15:04
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answered by Anonymous
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ask her if she will go for a drink with you, but dont ask her to go or do anything fancy, just pop to the pub after work or something. then see how she reacts, and her body language while your with her.
2007-01-05 12:01:20
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answered by caz 3
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