I have been with my boyfriend for two years and a guy I was attacted to two years ago aked me out. The guy that asked me out will be moving to a different state within two months. I know I shouldn't cheat on my bf because we had been together for so long, but knowing that I can cheat on him and get away with it is so TEMPTING, what am I gonna do?
by the way- no sexual relationship will be involve with the guy that aked me out if I do go out with him
2007-01-05 03:52:10 · 27 answers · asked by Taylor R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then give yourself a two months fling ...
2007-01-05 03:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by round face 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Younge lady, I am much older that yourself, but I have never understood the conditions that you people put one another under to be considered dating or attached. We never did years ago, if you had someone special, you generally gave each other the option to see others, and there was not near the strain or the feeling of being restricted then. I use to ride around town with several different girls and date one sort of steady. I guess the only difference is that back then we didn't have sex with that many people, or it was not expected in order to go steady as you guys do. Used to if we did, we did it and that was it, not so many strings attached. Crazy , maybe!!
2007-01-05 03:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never the answer, if you are unhappy for any reason and feel that you need to be with someone else, end the first relationship, and then move on.
Also, just some advice: Someday in your future, a man will ask the dreaded, "have you ever cheated on anyone?" question... I know of many men that will STOP dating and STOP talking to girls who have EVER cheated in their lives because the facts are simple.... ONCE a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. No guy wants to set himself up to be hurt.
2007-01-05 03:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You think?? How can you not know?? Even thinking it means that you are going to. I have been with my bf for 1 year and 11 months and I never ever will cheat on him. I love him way too much for that.
He should break up with you.
No sex, sure.
2007-01-05 03:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by deaddiscodork 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you care for your current B\F you won't, think of how he will feel if he finds out also think of how you would feel if he did it to you..... If you are tempted to do this behind his back maybe you are not as happy as you thought and you might consider breaking it off any way. Remember the old saying " Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" . Good luck in whatever you do.
2007-01-05 03:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you and your BF a favor and tell him you are thinking about it even if you do not go out with the guy.... honesty is the only good policy in a relationship! it is time you both re-think the relationship anyway. you are thinking cheating is possible, no?
2007-01-05 04:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i understand your temptation. Just think about something... if u cheat, will u feel good about yourself? not while cheating of course, but 5 min after leaving his place.. how will u feel? Life is about joy, our actions should make us feel great, if cheating will do that for you, go ahead, but if not, just let it pass. Think that u are able to cheat, he likes u, u like him, the situation is perfect.. but u have decided not to.. u have the chance and u will let it pass.. doesn´t it make u feel in control? doesn´t it make u feel good?
think about it... why cheat if u have a wonderful partner who knows u for so long.. will u change that for 30min of sex?
2007-01-05 03:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Confussed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't cheat on your bf if you love him and you want your relationship to last.If you're just having a good time with him and you don't really care go ahead.
2007-01-05 03:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by requiem19_25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Soooo....this means that your boyfriend can talk to other girls, right? If you're planning to cheat on your boyfriend, and are actually talking about it online, then don't get mad when you catch him cheating on you.
2007-01-05 04:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not going to have sex with the other guy then it is not Cheating. MY wife has plenty of guy friends and she does not sleep with them so I am cool with that.
2007-01-05 03:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it isn't cheating if your not sexual, and if you think you can deal with whatever guilt may rise out of this. then good luck, I am glad I am not a man espacally yours.
2007-01-05 03:55:28 · answer #11 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋