i'm dating two girls at the moment. They'll never know about the other girl becuase one goes to my school and the other doesn't (she goes to a school nearby). I like both of them equally and don't want to break it off with either of them. Am i being selfish?
2007-01-05 03:51:10 · 13 answers · asked by jerry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put yourself in their shoes...would you mind if a girl was dating two guys at the same time and didn't tell you?? Think about it.
2007-01-06 03:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being selfish. This situation isn't fair to either of the girls, even if they don't know about eachother. And there's always a chance that they will find out about eachother, even if you think that will never happen. So you need to decide what you want, and break it off with one or both of these girls.
2007-01-05 04:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know dating used to mean DATING...it wasn't dating once you were seeing someone exclusively....I don't even know what they call that anymore...dating should be used for getting to know someone better, hell in they are supervised....dating two girls is fine, but neither one should have the impression that they are the only one you are dating....you have to analyze it and take it from there, they will be pissed though....but I think you're ok personally.
2007-01-05 03:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating doesn't really inply that you are exclusive and as long as you don't let on or pretend otherwise then I'd have to say no.
Loads of women are multi-dating too but they are open about it. Just try and be as considerate as possible dude.
2007-01-05 03:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we were in a serious relationship and they dated others then i would say bye bye. I may not act mad but my interest in them would drop to zero! If we only went out together then that would be different.
2016-05-23 06:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you're being selfish! You're being unfaithful to the both of them. If you continue with these relationships, they're going to find out, and you're going to wind up alone. FIGURE IT OUT!
2007-01-05 03:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by hillystargirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a BAD thing to do...you need to pick one and you need to give that one all yur attention and treat her like she should be trreated...eventually they will figure out and you will just be in a BAD situation....plus how do u talk to both on the hone and do serparate things out of school??? its a BAD idea....date the one at yur school....you see her everyday and if you chose the other one you will just be tempted to date the pone at yur school again aswell bc you would see her everyday...so date the one at yur school!
2007-01-05 03:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by ~Ohio State~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just want the "macho" image. Keep it up as long as you can, but do not fool yourself and ever say you love them both.
2007-01-05 07:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, ur a pimp, do your thing. Next idea is to get them togather and have a 3 way party! Have fun.
2007-01-05 03:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they find out.. you're DEAD. sorry kid, but you better be good at.. hiding and stuff. sheesh.
2007-01-05 03:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by goesonyahooanswerswhenbored 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋