well mi bf just brock up with me yesterday after a good day of sex. well i really dont know what i did. he said that he had a good time & so did i so what do i do??? HELP
2007-01-05 03:29:56 · 18 answers · asked by taylor f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He did have a good time, he was just taking advantage of you before breaking up with you. He got the perfect male dream, sex without having to cater to you. Don't worry about what you did or didn't do, I know it's hard but someone who does that doesn't deserve you.
2007-01-05 03:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got played!!! I heard a guy yesterday brag about how he likes to get a little thing on the side. Have a steady girl and then have someone on the side to bang when his girl ain't in the mood.
You didn't do anything other than have sex with him. He got what he wanted and now he's through with you. If you don't want this heartache again. Hold off on the sex until he's truly committed to you!
2007-01-05 03:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, did you try anything new that he might not have really been into? Some people act like they like something new sexually and they really don't.Or did you try something new that he may be embarrassed to admit he really liked. He could have liked something and now sees it as making him less of a man than he wants to be.
Try talking to him and see what he says. Or he could just be a jerk and wanted to get his rocks off one last time before the breakup.
Either way you have a right to know whats going on. Ask him flat out what happened.
2007-01-05 03:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by whois 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is leavin u.. let him go.. if he is urs.. ur true luv he ll surely *** bck 2 u.. if he dnt turn 2 u he was nvr evr us.. i tink u made up wid a wrong guy coz evn aftr urs askin 2 him abt ur mistake he jus; wanna break up thn give it up.. 4get all tht.. its jus' u made a biiiig mistake n bettr get out of it widout gettin involvd in it 4 long.. hope u adjust soon.. n u get a gud bf soon..
2007-01-05 03:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on amd don't worry about it. go out and find another one. if you're only after sex...that shouldn't be an issue. if not....keep the goodies on lock for a while!
2007-01-05 03:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by pamcake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well obviously he was going to break up with you before ya'll had sex he just wanted to do it with you just one last time so get a new boyfriend he uses you to much
2007-01-05 03:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by minnie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find comfort in your friends. They always cheer me up when something bad happens and try to stay positive it wasn't anything you did it's just him.
2007-01-05 03:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by xox_Edward_xox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, he sounds like an ***. Remember your integrity, never let him see you sweat it. Just go on with life, it'll be okay and you'll meet someone else that's great.
2007-01-05 03:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you and it sounds as if there is someone else he has his eyes on. Run away fast
2007-01-05 03:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook-up with another girl right in front of him and say casually as you walk off holding her hand "see what you are missing"
2007-01-05 03:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋