who cares for me if they knew. i dont think they can take this heartbreak. How do i handle this responsibly and maturely? im thinking of leaving them. its best that way, dont you think so?
2007-01-05 03:22:04 · 18 answers · asked by listlessbutdiligent 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Are you serious?
This idea is all based on judgment. Judgment is based on an interpretation of perception.
In short it is something that we make up, essentially a fantasy.
I think you are perfect just the way that God made you. God agrees with me.
Are you going to argue with us?
If you actually were serious email me. We need to talk.
love and blessings Don
2007-01-05 03:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are underestimating people's ability to forgive and love. If they care for you, they love you. Heartbreak only lasts for a moment. I don't think it is the right thing to leave them. You can't run away from what you did. It will chase you. If you wronged them, tell them. They might be hurt at first, but hurt heals.
It sounds like you aren't sure if they can get over this. You either know these people or you don't. I think you know them very well and that they would get over it.
You need to thing about if you do leave them, what that would do to them too.
2007-01-05 11:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by cinderella9202003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know details, and I do not have too. But I would talk to the people that you hurt and ask for their forgiveness. If they are family you can be sure that they would be very upset if you left. I do not know if you are a believer in God or not, but He is a forgiving God- through His Son Jesus' death you can find forgiveness and peace. There is nothing that is bad enough that Christ will not forgive. Whatever you have done, know that you can make things right. God will help you. Leaving them will not solve the problem. You cannot really run away from things. Know that I am praying for you.
2007-01-05 12:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! If the situation were reversed, would you "freak out" on those you cared about? Usually, people are more understanding than we think, as long as we take responsibility for our actions. EVERYbody has things they regret (or should, at least). Give them a chance to forgive you. You'll all be lot closer to each other.
God Bless!
2007-01-05 11:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by kyletexas_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. You didn't tell us what you did or why it was so horrible.
So there's really no way for us to give you an informed opinion.
I would guess the mature and responsible thing to do though is to let the people who care about you know the truth and let them decide for themselves.
2007-01-05 11:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sign of growing is excepting the things you have done and trust me I'm 48 and have done some pretty bad stuff in my past but I have no more ghost's in this heart some I did as a kid and that fallowed until I learned I was kid when I did some of those things and it really helped me grow as a person. then I had to learn not to do some things as a adult.
2007-01-12 23:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by jane h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
I think it's best you put down every detail of your problem. It would not only help you solve it, but you'll feel relieved. Trust me..
No matter how bad you think you are.. there are others worse than you... and some of us might want to relate to the experience and share you what we've been through.. ;)
2007-01-05 11:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by in_crueger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they love and care about you, they will try to understand. It may be hard on everyone, but not as hard as the heartbreak you would cause them by leaving.
2007-01-05 11:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Bill Mac 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you do, you will never be able to hide from your past. We will all be judged and everyone will hear the full details of what we did in our lives. I suggest you start making ammends. Do the best you can to make it right and continue that for the rest of your life. If you haven't found GOD yes, I suggest you seek GOD out. This is critical in your mental health as well. Thank you and GOD bless.
2007-01-05 11:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even if you run, your problems and guilt will still be with you.. The best thing it so be honest, and if you have changed your ways, and are no longer doing these things that could hurt people, then there shouldn't be a problem.
2007-01-05 11:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋