ok this referring to what ia asked earlier!!! My mom was creamated and her ashes are still in mine and my too younger sisters house!!! Do you think that those ashes being there are what is making my healing as hard as it is?!?!?! Everyone who like actually knows me says thats probley why!!!
2007-01-05 02:37:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to remember that greiving takes a long time, everyone is differant. If your focusing on those ashes, I'm sure that would make you sad. Try looking at them and thinking what they represent, the woman that loved you the most, that taught you everything you know, that made you laugh, learn and love!! Then, let your mom know your going to get on with living, just as she would want you to!!!!!!!!!!! God bless and hang in!!!!
2007-01-05 02:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in that situation before, but if you THINK that is the problem but your not sure then don't do any thing you will regret like going and spreading them give the ashes to a close relative or friend to hold on too for a while and see if it helps.
2007-01-05 10:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by Shamona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom keeps the ashes of my grandfather in her home. the only time i have seen her cry was on his birthday. other than that she looks at it as though part of him is always with her. time will help the healing. i know it is hard ,but try and be positive and celebrate the life she had,the person she was and her spirit now.
2007-01-05 10:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by hhhmmmmm?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be frist of all( I am sorry for your lose) knowing that your mom is in there is making your heart hurt so you and your sister need to come up with something so you and your sister can start to heal may God bless you and your sister
2007-01-05 10:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Summer G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask your self if thats what your mom would like you to do ???
2007-01-05 10:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Someonetolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dear no idea..........................................
2007-01-05 10:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋