my friend asked me how will she do avid steal things from shop and his home? she likes stealing things since she was 4.she becomes my friend becasue she likes me, she leaves his former friends they are still robbers.
she has a job, she needs to give back his things or money to people who she stole from them. i told her go back things to people eg shop, his parents etc,
but she is afraid because they can tell policeman about her why she gives back things mean she was robber.
she promises to do stop stealing because things are not her and make people suffering.
what will i do to help her?
2007-01-05 02:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
First, you can learn english. No offense, your post was just very hard to read.
Second, she needs to see a psychologist. What you have described is called compulsive theft, and is a treatable mental illness in the obsession-compulsion spectrum.
Morally, you are right though that she also needs to return EVERYTHING she's stolen and apologize, even if it means she gets some jail time. If she is in counseling for the compulsion though, she is less likely to do hard time.
2007-01-05 02:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right to tell her that she must give back the things she has stolen. And she is right to realize that stealing may have consequences that reach far beyond the time and place they were stolen. However, in order to make things right with God again, the things must still be returned. Perhaps, the things could be returned through a mediator like a lawyer or mutual friend. Or, maybe the thing to do is just to start by appologizing over the phone and explaining that she wants to return the things which she stole as she is remorseful and wants to make things right. Prayer is always a good place to start and even if the consequences are not pleasant for returning the things, the good conscience which will result will be so worth it that your friend will be happier in the long run. May God bless her as she does what she knows is right.
2007-01-05 10:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to anonymously give back those items she stole with an anonymous note saying sorry. That's about all she can do to try to keep from getting the police called on her.
2007-01-05 10:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Conscious-X 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to repent and turn from her life of stealing. Realize her sinfullness and give her life to Christ who has forgiven her for stealing and her other sins.
She might fall back from time to time, but she has to have faith that Christ is all she needs and that God will provide all that she needs not all that she wants.
Matt
2007-01-05 10:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like a good thief. She can give them back without them knowing. Still she has to get their forgiveness if she don't want to go to Hell. I'm afraid there isn't much to do but die an go to Hell. xx
2007-01-05 10:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Betty Boop 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask for the Lord's help in this. Pray for her to do the right thing.
2007-01-05 10:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋