well me and kyle have been dating for 3 weeks and we had sex the other day and it really really really hurt and he seemed to get pleasure out of me saying "baby that hurts dont **** me so hard" he like went deeper and faster i told him to stop and suggested new things to calm him down but it seems whenever i make him mad he wants to have sex and do it really hard.. is it punishment?
2007-01-05 02:30:22 · 15 answers · asked by angel1566789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn girl. Send him my way!!
2007-01-05 02:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy B. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, but only if you let him do it to you. If someone hurt me like that, I would say get off and stay off. If he gets mad, then oh well. Personally that is no way to treat a girlfriend and it is abuse. Anybody that gets pleasure from hurting another has no respect and is a sadist. You need to reconsider dating Kyle.
2007-01-05 10:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do The Same Thing To Him Bang Him Hard
2007-01-05 10:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys get turned on by hurting women. Others like the dirty talk. If he likes the dirty talk you have to agree on a code word that would tell him you are not kidding and to stop, perhaps when you say "sunshine" he knows that he is really hurting you. that way he can get turned on by you talking dirty to him. (Guys love it when women resist a bit).
If he just likes to hurt women, get out and fast it will only get worse.
2007-01-05 10:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by ted j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's probably thinking it's some kind of game... some woman do like it rough, and if it hurts a little, it's that much better for them... if you don't want him to do this, then tell him that you simply wont have sex with him, if he can't control himself, he hurts you, and you don't want to be hurt.
personally, if a couple isn't sexualy compatable, it's asking for trouble...
2007-01-05 10:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why he would want to have sex when he is mad...... he probably thinks you like it and doesnt realise that it might actually hurts you...... he seems kind of dumb..... cut him off for a while and when he wonder why tell him t hat it hurts and when you say it hurts and dong go so hard or whatever he does it harder.... so cut him off for a while
2007-01-05 10:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my bf is like that too..
when it hurts he likes to fu*k me harder.. i kno it hurts me when he f*cks me cuz his d1ck is big and i proabbly just have a small pu$$y ....
if he fu*ks u harder thats not good... he needs to stop becuz it could end up fu&king ur insides up.. i kno trust me...
sweetie let me tell u .. it doenst sound good.. i am or was in an abusive relationship and it started off with little shyt.. not like that exactly.. buh the way u make it sound.. "when u make him mad he wants to **** u hard" that dont sound good.. u really **** like that when u want to have dirty sex or if YOU want it hard... it dont shyt for them .. like for their dick it dont do nuin for them.. it does someting for u .. i dont ko .. i need to talk to u .. to get if u get me on wat im saying..
its better u fix it sooner than later or ur gonna start to hate having sex
2007-01-05 10:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by phatguyanesegurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its total ignorance on the part of your boyfriend. dump him and find someone who will give you a little respect
2007-01-05 10:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by ken s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but he's crazy if he goes harder and deeper he's not listening to you, better look out
2007-01-05 10:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him if you like him and use alot of lubrication.
2007-01-05 11:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would be punishment having to have sex with you.
2007-01-05 10:36:14 · answer #11 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋