....and not single men. and then continue to do so after they have agreed to back off. I have tried talking to her, others have talked to her when she has done this before to other guys. Even the guy is not interested, but she continues. But she won't change. I don't know what to do.
2007-01-05 02:29:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anna K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately that's what makes them S**ts. They do it because it's a need to feel good about themselves...........It's called self esteem..........they have none, and really need to be pitied.
As for you, if you have a boyfriend give him continual positive re-enforcement.........men and boys brains run in a different direction. Ours is on our head and above our waist. Sorry men! all of theirs is going south.............Unless these girls can find what is GOOD about themselves, they will continue to be that way.
2007-01-05 02:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before calling this girl a S*ut, have you ever sat down and tried having a conversation with her regarding this type of behavior? This kind of behavior from woman/girls is usually due to some underlying issues of the heart. She sounds like she is a girl who is in a lot of emotional pain. Perhaps you should have a talk with her and ask her why she does what she does? Maybe she only needs that a friend tries to reach her in a non-judgmental way in order to see the error of her ways and challenge her to want to change. Try and be honest and let her know how her behavior affects you and your relationship with your guy.
2007-01-05 02:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people who appear to be confident aren't. Low self-esteem could be part of the problem, she may feel as though she needs to prove how -hot- she is by snagging a man who belongs to someone else. It may make her feel better, it could also be a case of wanting something that you cannot have. Once you attain something that is unattainable it validates your self-worth. Either way, it's her issue, not yours. If your man is not going to fall for it, then there is nothing more you can do.
Good luck.
2007-01-05 02:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has some problems... especially knowing that this guy is not interested in her. Maybe she needs helping finding someone that wants her and that she likes back.
There's so many guys out there, that like these type of females.
Might wanna move on with life, and forget about her. She'll pick on someone else.
Best Of Luck
2007-01-05 02:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by latinapr1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. deja vu. last year my best friend tried to steal my boyfriend.
Pretty much, you just gotta go in and face each day as it comes, try NOT to get jealous, because trust me, once you start getting jealous, you can't get out of that jealous rut.
Try to hang out with your boyfriend for sure, once a week, choose a day like Saturday or Sunday where you always try to reserve that day for the two of you.....and also, hang out before school, and during school....whenever she comes near, tell your guy to act totally engaged in a conversation with you or your friends, and tell him to just be like "hang on a minute" to her, but then if he continues till the bell rings- she never gets her chance.
2007-01-05 02:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz guys dat are wiv sum1 look a lot happier nd have more confidence so a sl*t sees the shine off of him nd immediately want something they know they might not get but they keep trying thinkin the guy will get interested after a while.
2007-01-05 02:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by sexyeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like that are looking for a challange to prove to themselves that they are so desirable because they are insecure. The best thing to do is to have the guy set her straight. It would humiliate her to be told from her target, that she is not wanted. She should stay away after her ego is bruised otherwise she is an incredible fool.
2007-01-05 02:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy isn't interested, then he needs to tell her to back off. She needs to hear it from him. If that doesn't work, then try to avoid her. Change where you hang out if you know she will be there. Eventually she will move on to someone else's boyfriend.
2007-01-05 02:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feed off of drama....... they love to be homewreckers and f something up that took years to build......... some women are just playa hatas like that.
But if the guy on the other end was any good, he would put that broad in check.
2007-01-05 02:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Playa Hata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sl*ts always want what they can't have. They love to see if they can get another girl's man, and if they succeed they just like to rub it in your face. If this girl is your friend I suggest to find better friends and leave her alone!
2007-01-05 02:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋