She and I have been dating for 4 months, we moved in together, and she's played, I've cheated, and we wish to keep together. I don't want to hurt her, and she knows I'm a slut. I can commit, but I also give up friends in doing so. Which is better, to loose friends, focus on her (last gf i did that with left me).. or to be myself, and warn her?
2007-01-05 02:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Shelli_k18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are cheating because you are afraid of being commited. When you said "focus on her (last gf i did that with left me)", I can tell the pain of the last gf leaving you, even though you put a lot of yourself into the relationship really hurt you. Maybe you should work on your trust issues. Just because one relationship goes sour doesn't mean they all will. Cheating on a lover is not only hurting her, it's hurting yourself. Try and be alone for a little while and reflect on what you truly want in a relationship before getting back into the dating game.
2007-01-05 02:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really support polygamy.
Whats the point of being in a committed relationship when you want to fool around with other women?
It defeats the entire purpose of having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, in my opinion.
2007-01-05 10:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by sparklene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not really polygamy...polygamy is married to two or more people.
What you want is an open relationship, and you have to be prepared that that might not be what she wants.
It sounds like a difficult dilemna for you, but you need to decide..do you want her more..or multiple relationships more...and be honest with her.
Speaking for myself, I would not want to share my boyfriend with anyone else.
2007-01-05 10:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay together but in an open relationship
2007-01-05 10:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to my house. I need a new doormat.
2007-01-05 10:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just go and get your self a toy and be bye your self.
2007-01-05 10:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewww, think of all those diseases floating around.......gross
2007-01-05 10:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋